
You always dread days like these. You write imagined speeches in your head in preparation of such an inevitability. Heartfelt eulogies that poignantly convey a genuine emotional sorrow to such a tragic eventuality. I thought I’d know what to say, how to express my gratitude. Perhaps share some insightful anecdote about the significance of his work and how it got me through some tough times as a confused, introverted kid. Alas I find I’m at a loss, desperately seeking the appropriate response for such a profoundly despondent event. Stan Lee’s passing is one such incident that truly hurts my heart. The grief that I feel is a sensation that seems wedged in my subconscious somewhere. Lodged and niggling internally but unable to manifest as anything other than numbing shock.
I’m devastated I never got to meet him, to convey my sincerest admiration for his inspirational contribution to my formative years of reticent adolescence. To grovel at his feet and declare my unwavering support for the characters and stories he helped create. Despite never meeting him I always felt like I knew Stan Lee. His distinctive voice was so iconic that he could narrate the most monotonous parts of my day with that insatiable enthusiasm he harnessed and make it seem like final panel in an Avengers comic. His face was so ubiquitous that even people outside the comic book community recognised him, even if they weren’t sure where. What I’ll most remember about him however is his creations, most notably Spider-Man.
Spider-man was a considerable influence on me growing up, imparting admirable ethical values to a kid who would expedite his mother’s ire to get attention. A kid who selfishly considered his own arbitrary needs rather than that of his mother or sister. The principles of being a decent human being were inspired by the virtues instilled in characters like Spider-man. That “With great power comes great responsibility”. This is an expression of such eminence that still resonates with me today. One which I try to respect and preach to my own daughter. I’ll never get the chance to thank you Stan, but something tells me that a great many people have already made him well aware of his inspiration many times.
Stan Lee was truly the greatest Superhero of them all. Nuff said!