Saturday Sleepovers

Hitting the sack early tonight to cuddle with my kadai kutty. Saturday night sleepover is a treat that both of us look forward to. I cuddle him a little tighter and longer knowing that this weekly ritual has a shelf life.

Deeply grateful for this Saturday night cuddle therapy with this life sized love. 

A slice of childhood

There were about eight or nine of us gathered virtually. It was a reunion with my friends from 11th and 12th standard. It has been 27 years since we graduated from high school. How is it possible that 27 years have passed by and yet it all feels like just yesterday?  It was a good hour and a half of light hearted conversation. 

While we may have changed as people and our life circumstances have changed, I am grateful that the group dynamics have stood the test of time. 11th and 12th grades were a special part of my growing up years because of this bunch. I developed a strong sense of belonging and thrived in those two years. Beyond thankful for that experience.

Little Moments Thursday

Celebrating and expressing gratitude for the little moments this week brought. 

  • The attractive full moon. Could have stared at her for hours together!
  • After languishing for close to a year, the curry leaves plant is showing signs of life. 
  • Getting pictures from amma’s garden and our perumal room in Chennai
  • Ram saying numerous times that he is mighty proud of me for the latest video compilation I did. Of course, each time he ends it with an unapologetic proclamation, “I have taught you well amma. I am a good teacher.”
  • Attended a virtual reception for library patrons. Very nice to have some lightness sprinkled in on a work night. 

Tudlu for now. 

Working together

Dragged Ram into one of my volunteering projects today. It was so much fun creating something with him. Honestly, there is no better way to bond than over an activity. Be it cooking, gardening, hiking, doing jigsaw puzzles, book clubs, or in our case creating a video. I am grateful that Ram indulged me today. I am thankful for the time spent with him over this activity. 

Focused work

Thankful for a day of focused and disciplined work. It’s not the volume of work rather when work is fragmented and scattered that I find myself drained. Glad that I had the luxury to follow through on my To Do list at work without having to squeeze them between calls every half hour. It was a long, hard working day but I got a lot done.

Close to my heart

After we reviewed the dance item we have learnt so far, my dance teacher called out my name. My heart skipped a beat. I was pretty sure that I had done something sloppy and was caught red handed in the act. Unexpectedly, my teacher had a heartfelt word of appreciation and encouragement for me. She said I have improved as a dancer and that my passion for the art form shows. My heart was overflowing with gratitude that instant. 

I am grateful for all the twists and turns that brought me here under my teacher’s guidance and the continued journey. Gratitude to my tribe. If this art form were to be an individual pursuit, I would have crashed and burned long back. Lucky that my path crossed with a nurturing group that supports and lifts each other up. Gratitude for being able to experience life at a different level because of the art form. 

A walk in the woods

Forget about studies that indicate how being in nature is good for your mental and emotional well being. All you need to do is wear your walking shoes and step out of your house. And every time I manage to do that I feel so lucky to be able to take a walk, witness the changing seasons, and soak in the breathtaking beauty of Mother Nature.

I know I sound like a broken record as I have probably written this only a gazillion times on this blog. Therein lies the beauty of it, every time the experience feels new and fresh. Isn’t that something to feel thankful for? Boatload of gratitude to Mother Nature for replenishing and rejuvenating us.

Connecting tissue

  • I click on the Google folder with our dance practice videos and see them all organized by dates. I whisper “bless you” in my head to the friend who takes care of all the logistics and working out the details with our dance teacher for our group. 
  • A group text from a mom that I worked with as a room parent in Ram’s class a couple of years back brings a smile to my face. “Would you be interested in helping out with the fifth grade graduation activities? I enjoyed working with you two and thought I would check?” 
  • A mom from an extracurricular activity that we worked with a few years back wrote asking if we would be willing to join a team that she is creating so the boys can have fun together. 
  • A friend at the school bus stop asked if those of whose kids take the same bus stop would like to join her for the holiday gift giving for the bus driver. 

In each of these cases, the sum of the individual parts is certainly greater than the value that each of us brought individually. The experience is richer because of the collective effort and contribution.  I have great admiration for folks who  see an opportunity and have the knack to bring people together so everyone benefits out of it. 

Gratitude to people who act as the connecting tissue for the benefit of the greater good. 

Little Moments Thursday

Paying gratitude for the little moments that this week brought. 

  • My former Sunday school student came up to me to catch up at the town center. It truly made me feel special. 
  • The last set of roses for the season is in bloom in our front yard  and every time I pass by, I  bend down to literally smell the roses. Ha, the sweet fragrance! 
  • Spending the day with Ram at the town center watching the Veteran’s day parade and stopping by to get bubble tea. 
  • Taco Thursday at home today. Long live Mexican cuisine! A favorite at our household. 
  • Ram and I wearing match-match PJs. Truth be told, I got them only because they were on sale. Before we start our bed time, Ram and I check with each other – white or red? Totally cheesy but it has become our thing! 

Hope you had a week that was overflowing with little moments of gratitude.