Most guys want their friend to be their wife. Marrying your best friend is a dream many guys wish for. After the rejection, the guy disconnects, because it gets too awkward and its unhealthy for him to stay connected.
In old-D&D goblins were a species created by an evil god to suffer and to create suffering. They are literally made evil, and their god enforces this. They eat children. In modern d&d they are basically small humans with different skin and big floppy ears.