Why Modern Women Have No Game

Posted on 2025/10/17 by Jack

Defiled mothers produce broken daughters.

Readership: All; Men;
Theme: Girl Game
Length: 900 words
Reading Time: 6 minutes

Love Grows Cold

While I was writing about The “Let’s Break Up” Sh!t Test (LBUST) and the motivations behind it, I gathered an important takeaway — that the LBUST game play is a tell-tale sign of an Avoidantly Attached woman.  Thus, social media being flooded with women playing the LBUST indicates that there is a mass proliferation of women with an Avoidant Attachment style.

A research study by Konrath et al. (2014) indicates this is true. The percentage of people having an Avoidant Attachment style has more than doubled since the 1980s, and now stands between 20-25% of the population.  That’s huge!

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Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Archetypes, Attachment Styles, Child Development, Churchianity, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Courtship and Marriage, Devouring Mother, Discerning Lies and Deception, Divorce, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Generational Curses, Generations, Gynocentrism, Intersexual Dynamics, Models of Failure, Parenting, Psychology, Relationships, Single Parents, Validation | 11 Comments

Low SMV Women Even the Score

Posted on 2025/10/15 by Jack

Women decimate their own eligibility by waiting too long and having excessive demands.

Readership: All
Theme: Girl Game
Author’s Note: This essay was contributed on 2023/12/3 by a happily married Christian female reader who wishes to remain anonymous. Edited by Jack with statistics and references added.
Length: 1,600 words
Reading Time: 8 minutes

Lack of Supply is what Drives Demand

In this essay, I want to address this statement proffered by a reader, riuoku [emphasis mine]:

“I am still scratching my head at the following issue:

We want to tell women to be accountable and submissive.  Of course, they should forget about “finding themselves” in their 20s.  But, that still doesn’t solve the problem that there won’t be enough attractive men for them to marry — unless we demand them to marry men they are not attracted to, which I am not sure is a great idea either.

…there just don’t seem to be a collective way to solve this problem.  Am I missing something?”

This reader is resonating a common refrain we’ve often heard from TheDeti, that women need to choose a man, marry him, sex him up regularly, and have his kids — without much regard to attraction.  (Deti is welcome to correct me if I’ve got him wrong on this.)

But let’s reframe this.  This is seeing the problem as one centered around the supply of attractive MEN.  This is a WOMAN’s perspective.  The thing that is missing is MEN’s perspective.

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Posted in Agency, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Power, Purpose, Relationships, The Herd | 5 Comments

Perspectives on The Main Event

Posted on 2025/10/13 by Jack

Mandatory reading for new husbands.

Readership: All; Men;
Theme: Girl Game
Length: 1,250 words
Reading Time: 6 minutes

Intro

Regular readers are probably already familiar with The Main Event, described in these posts.

  1. Reddit/marriedredpill: [MRP Theory] The Main Event (2014/11/14)
  2. Christianity and Masculinity: The Main Event for Married Men (2023/2/15)

If you’re NOT familiar with The Main Event, you’ll definitely need to click on the first link and put yourself in the know before clicking on anything else today.  It is mandatory Red Pill reading.

A Brief Summary of Intersexual Relationship Structures

I’ve written tomes on marital / relationship structures. Here, I want to offer a comprehensive summary of these structures so that readers can put The Main Event into perspective.  (Recently, I saw some comments around the sphere that indicate some readers haven’t yet gotten this.)

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Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Authority, Calculated Risk Taking, Chivalry, Collective Strength, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Divorce, Female Evo-Psych, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Headship Authority, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Power, Protestantism, Psychology, Relationships | 12 Comments

6 Motivations Women Have for Playing the “Let’s Break Up” Sh!t Test

Posted on 2025/10/10 by Jack

Pursuing the faux validation of delusional self-pedestalization.

Readership: All; Men;
Theme: Girl Game
Length: 1,700 words
Reading Time: 9 minutes

Intro

My last post covered The “Let’s Break Up” Sh!t Test (LBUST) and explained why it doesn’t ‘work’.

Here, I’ve come up with six motivations that Women may have for playing The “Let’s Break Up” Sh!t Test.  There may be others, and there are probably more than one in play for any given scenario, depending on the gal.

  1. Boredom / Entertainment
  2. Control / Dominance / Manipulation
  3. Ego Gratification / Selfishness
  4. Envy
  5. Insecurity
  6. Validation

I’ll go through each of these.

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Posted in Agency, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, False Authority, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Gynocentrism, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Solipsism, Trust | 7 Comments

The “Let’s Break Up” Sh!t Test

Posted on 2025/10/08 by Jack

Seeing through the smoke screen.

Readership: All; Men;
Theme: Girl Game
Length: 1,300 words
Reading Time: 7 minutes

Intro

If you’ve been watching Red Pill 2.0 creators and/or T!kT0k, then you’ve surely seen examples of the “Let’s Break Up” Sh!t Test.

This particular Sh!t Test has come up many times on social media (IG, T!kT0k, etc.) over the last year or two, originally by female vloggers who are horrified to discover that it backfires on them, and then by ManoTubers commenting about the stupidity of these women and congratulating the men for walking away.

If you haven’t seen it, then you’ll have to check it out.  The utter inanity is epic hilarious, but if you have a sensitive conscience, it’s somewhat sad.

Let’s go through this.

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Posted in Agency, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, False Authority, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Gynocentrism, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Solipsism, Trust | Tagged , , , | 15 Comments

What is the Prevalence of Paternity Fraud?

Posted on 2025/10/06 by Jack

Seriously, who’s your DNA daddy?

Readership: All;
Theme: Girl Game
Author’s Note: Based on an email discussion among Jack, Red Pill Apostle, and Thedeti on 2025/7/29-31.
Length: 1,600 words
Reading Time: 9 minutes

Intro

Merchant marines are reputed to have many illegitimate children.

In the popular lore of the 19th and early 20th century, it was the milkman.

In ye olde Manosphere lore, it is the college frat guy working as a pool cleaner.

Today, there are jokes, quips, and video shorts about surprising DNA test results that have replaced all of the above.

Here’s a funny example.

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Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Comedy, Discerning Lies and Deception, Divorce, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Legacy, Male Power, Parenting, Sex, Single Parents | 20 Comments

Is Bread or Buns Christian?

Posted on 2025/10/03 by Jack

Revising our expectations for the new Normal.

Readership: All; Men;
Theme: Awareness and Introspection; Girl Game;
Length: 400 words
Reading Time: 2 minutes

Bread or Buns?

Recently, there’s a new trend going through the secular SMP, “Bread or Buns”.

Call Me Shape: Men DEMAND Bread or Buns for DATES… Women FREAK OUT (2025/9/1)

The basic idea is that if a woman wants something from a man, e.g. heavy lifting, home repairs, paying for dates, special favors, etc.), then the woman needs to put up $$$ (Bread) or put out poon (Buns).

This is also being described as “The Law of Equivalent Exchange”.

The days of Chivalry are truly dead and gone.  This is darn near the sexual license social equality that women have always been hankering for.

So let’s ask the question…

Is Bread or Buns Christian?

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Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Communications, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Anthropology, Decision Making, Ethical Systems, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Male Power, Power, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sex, Society, Strategy | 15 Comments

Braised Sister Turns Heads and Profits!

Posted on 2025/10/01 by Jack

A Cloying Coquette with Cleavage and a Cleaver is a Clever Crowdbuster.

Readership: All
Theme: Girl Game
Length: 800 words
Reading Time: 5 minutes

Sex Appeal Sells Just About Anything

Here’s an interesting little piece of Taiwan’s recent history that modern Western influence has erased from the culture.

Years ago in Taiwan, shop owners would commonly task their best-looking employees with being a hostess at the front door, working the cash register, or other positions that required regular interaction with clients.  These workers would be schooled in proper social etiquette and other common graces to make the best impression for the business.  This practice was also not-so-subtly competitive, as is most every aspect of business in Asia.  Thus, it was rather common to see nubile girls working in family-owned service industries and food stands, often working in revealing clothing.

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Posted in Agency, Appreciating the Fine Arts, Attraction, Authentic Authority, Authority, Cultural Anthropology, Desire, Desire, Passion, Female Power, Intersexual Dynamics, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Politics, Power, Sexual Authority, Society, Taiwan, Validation | 7 Comments

Awareness and Introspection — Index of Posts

Posted on 2025/09/30 by Jack

A summary of this 2-month-long theme and links to posts.

Readership: All
Theme: Awareness and Introspection
Length: 600 words
Reading Time: 3 minutes

Metaduction

I have been anticipating and preparing writings for this theme of Awareness and Introspection for more than a year.  In my prayers about what to write on this blog, I’ve received multiple assurances that the topics I’ve addressed in this theme are what Christian men need to be aware of during this New Era (which began in early July 2024, and which is not to be confused with the current Internet Age, which started in March 2024).

I postponed this theme for several months because (1) it didn’t seem like the right time, or something about it didn’t seem ‘appropriate’ for reasons I cannot explain, (2) the subject matter is difficult to absorb and some of it is a little too abstract or bizarre for the average man to comprehend (e.g., Gestalt, Meaning, Mythos, etc.), (3) I knew it wouldn’t receive much interest, and (4) there were always many other happenings going on that provided much more interesting topics to write about.

However, my conscience constrained me to post this content, despite its lackluster appeal.  So finally, at the beginning of August, I decided that I wasn’t going to put it off any longer and I began posting what I had prepared.

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Posted in Conserving Power, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Moral Agency, Mysticism, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept | 9 Comments

Conflicts of Mythos and Meaning

Posted on 2025/09/30 by Jack

Wise leadership and a critical mass of people sharing the same Mythos are necessary for a community to become Meaningful and for Mythos to become reality.

Readership: All
Theme: Awareness and Introspection; Problems with The Red Pill;
Length: 1,200 words
Reading Time: 6 minutes

Schrödinger’s Mythos

We often hear voices and see memes expressing the idea that the culture / society is disintegrating.  Part of what this means is that there is no central Mythos that ties everyone and every event together to form a congruent Meaning to it all.

The so-called Cultural War is over which Mythos should be predominant in society.  Psychologically, the battle is about how to perceive reality, what to believe, and how to respond in an ethical manner. If there is no shared Mythos to delineate a clear set of ethics, then people will not know how to act and respond.

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Posted in Appreciating the Fine Arts, Authentic Authority, Authenticity, Authority, Choosing a Church, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Complementarianism, Convergence, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Cultural Anthropology, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Elite Cultural Influences, Ethical Systems, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Introspection, Leadership, Literature, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Persuasion, Philosophy, Positivism / Scientism, Power, Protestantism, Psychology, Purpose, Science, Self-Concept, Society | Tagged , , , , | 3 Comments