Category Archives: Parenting

The Church Validates Bad Boys™ and Punishes them for Converting

Posted on 2026/06/12 by Jack

The Church affirms Christian young women’s pursuit of secular Chads, thereby betraying the young single Christian men in the church by undermining their chances with the girls. But if a Chad converts, he is rigorously subjected to the machinations of the gynolatrous churchian order, in an effort to change him into a Churchian Beta Boy. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Anthropology, Decision Making, Ethical Systems, Faith Community, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Intersexual Dynamics, Models of Failure, Parenting, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Society, Sphere of Influence | 8 Comments

Church is an Ideal MMP … Unless it is Broken

Posted on 2026/06/05 by Jack

The MMP within the Church holds so much potential, but that potential is dissipated by idolatry, simpery, poor church leadership, and weak fathers. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Anthropology, Decision Making, Ethical Systems, Faith Community, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Intersexual Dynamics, Models of Failure, Parenting, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Society, Sphere of Influence | 15 Comments

The Worldly Microcosm of the Churchian Marriage Marketplace

Posted on 2026/06/03 by Jack

How Church Chicks defeat their religious obligations to mate with Churchian Betas by swapping out for a secular Mating Paradigms. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Anthropology, Decision Making, Ethical Systems, Faith Community, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Intersexual Dynamics, Models of Failure, Parenting, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Society, Sphere of Influence | Tagged , , , , | 3 Comments

The Advent of Female Accountability

Posted on 2026/05/18 by Jack

Men holding women accountable is much more important to civilization, domestic peace, and marital harmony than anyone suspected 20 years ago. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Authentic Authority, Authority, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Cultural Anthropology, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Gentile Authority, Gynocentrism, Headship and Patriarchy, Headship Authority, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Leadership, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Parenting, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Sphere of Influence, Vetting Women | 7 Comments

Out of Nigeria — Part 6: Responses from the Christian Manosphere

Posted on 2026/05/15 by Jack

A collection of responses to a Nigerian Christian young man struggling to assert himself and retain his faith within a toxic Matriarchal environment. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Authority, Building Wealth, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Church, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Communications, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Cultural Anthropology, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Depression, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Ethical Systems, Faith Community, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Generational Curses, Generations, Gynocentrism, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, International, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Nigeria, Paradigms of Religion, Parenting, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Persuasion, Power, Protestantism, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Respect, Rites of Passage, Self-Concept, Society, Strategy, Thankfulness, The Power of God, Witchcraft | 4 Comments

Out of Nigeria — Part 5: Current Status and Petition

Posted on 2026/05/13 by Jack

A Nigerian Christian young man tells of the challenges in his life and his faith, and what he plans to do about it. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Authority, Calculated Risk Taking, Child Development, Choosing a Church, Choosing a College, Choosing A Profession, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Communications, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Cultural Anthropology, Cultural Differences, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Depression, Determination, Devouring Mother, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Generational Curses, Headship and Patriarchy, Headship Authority, Holding Frame, Inner Game, International, Introspection, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Nigeria, Parenting, Perseverance, Power, Protestantism, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Self-Concept, Society, Sphere of Influence, Teaching | 6 Comments

Out of Nigeria — Part 4: The Controlling, Devouring Matriarchy

Posted on 2026/05/11 by Jack

Mama ain’t happy unless you stay tied under her apron strings, and OBEY! Continue reading →

Posted in Attitude, Authority, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Church, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Communications, Confidence, Conflict Management, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Cultural Anthropology, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Depression, Determination, Devouring Mother, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Ethical Systems, Faith Community, Female Evo-Psych, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Genealogy, Generational Curses, Generations, Gynocentrism, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, International, Introspection, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Nigeria, Paradigms of Religion, Parenting, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Protestantism, Psychology, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, The Hamster, The Herd | 10 Comments

Out of Nigeria — Part 3: Church and The Red Pill

Posted on 2026/05/08 by Jack

A Nigerian reader tells of his perseverance in his faith amid familial resistance, spiritual violence, and taking The Red Pill. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Authority, Calculated Risk Taking, Child Development, Choosing a Church, Choosing a College, Choosing A Profession, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Communications, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Cultural Anthropology, Cultural Differences, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Depression, Determination, Devouring Mother, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Generational Curses, Headship and Patriarchy, Headship Authority, Holding Frame, Inner Game, International, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Nigeria, Online Personas, Paradigms of Religion, Parenting, Perseverance, Power, Protestantism, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Self-Concept, Society, Sphere of Influence, Teaching, The Power of God | 6 Comments

Out of Nigeria — Part 2: Education, Military, and Career Plans

Posted on 2026/05/06 by Jack

A Nigerian Christian young man tells of his endeavors to prepare himself for a career. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Authority, Calculated Risk Taking, Child Development, Choosing a Church, Choosing a College, Choosing A Profession, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Communications, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Cultural Anthropology, Cultural Differences, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Depression, Determination, Devouring Mother, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Generational Curses, Headship and Patriarchy, Headship Authority, Holding Frame, Inner Game, International, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Media, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Nigeria, Parenting, Perseverance, Politics, Power, Protestantism, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Self-Concept, Society, Sphere of Influence, Teaching | 11 Comments

Out of Nigeria — Part 1: Life in Nigeria

Posted on 2026/05/04 by Jack

A Nigerian Christian young man tells of his family issues and the challenges to his faith. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Authority, Calculated Risk Taking, Child Development, Choosing a Church, Choosing a College, Choosing A Profession, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Communications, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Cultural Anthropology, Cultural Differences, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Depression, Determination, Devouring Mother, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Generational Curses, Headship and Patriarchy, Headship Authority, Holding Frame, Inner Game, International, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Media, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Nigeria, Parenting, Perseverance, Politics, Power, Protestantism, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Self-Concept, Society, Sphere of Influence, Teaching | 13 Comments