unencumbered now
i cherish this time with you
safety, peace and calm
Tag: authenticity
Extending
the sun beams guidance
no borders in the spiral
spirit soars higher
**NOTE – This is one of my pieces that didn’t make the cut for Pure Haiku’s Encircling Theme.
Self-Portrait
Who Am I
descriptors label
we’re complicated humans
i am all these things
Wonderful prompt, Reena! Thanks for always hosting interesting ones for us! I did dig deeper and Googled the word as I’d never heard of it. Fascinating info…
AI Overview
An otrovert is a newly defined personality type, coined by psychiatrist Rami Kaminski, for individuals who are well-adjusted and friendly but consistently feel like outsiders, resisting absorption into groups or collectives. Unlike introverts who turn inward, or extroverts who turn outward, otroverts “turn elsewhere,” prioritizing independence and clarity while maintaining empathy and connection on a deep, individual level rather than in large groups. They are comfortable with their non-belonging, preferring one-on-one interactions over group settings and often finding their unique perspective a source of strength.
Key Characteristics of an Otrovert:
- Resists Group Identity: Otroverts question abstract group ideas and don’t feel a deep connection to ideologies, religions, or other large-scale affiliations.
- Prefers Individual Connections: They enjoy deep, one-on-one friendships and prefer individual activities over group ones.
- Observational and Independent: They are often observers who remain grounded in their own values, rather than conforming to group norms.
- Friendly but Not Merged: While empathetic and capable of engaging with groups, they never fully dissolve into the collective, maintaining their emotional autonomy.
- A “Foul Weather Friend”: They are reliable and deep friends who help others without expectation of reciprocity.
How Otroverts Differ from Other Types:
- vs. Introvert: Introverts are energized by solitude, but otroverts are not necessarily alone; they simply don’t thrive in group settings.
- vs. Extrovert: Extroverts gain energy from being around people, while otroverts are comfortable standing apart from the crowd.
- vs. Ambivert/Omnivert: These terms describe a person’s ability to balance introverted and extroverted tendencies. Theotrovert focuses on the deliberate nature of non-belonging and the preference for individual connection.
“Otrovert” and the Concept of Otherness:
The term “otrovert” is derived from the Spanish word “otro” (other). The concept emphasizes the strength in being an outsider and highlights that feeling like an outsider is not a flaw but a distinct personality trait that can lead to unique creativity and insights.
Best Days Ahead
Redux
life’s cruelty held me down
it dampened me
became hardened even
but there lies
determination within
it resides deep down
in the folds of my being
from this place of
darkness and
stoic bravado
i will emerge
i will rise
watch me become
Originally posted 3/28/2019 on I Write Her, presented with revisions.
Lessons Learned
Redux
It all hurts…
other’s cruel intentions
life’s accidental interventions
immature decisions
wounding by self-infliction
external forces not caring about consequences
But it gave me…
an understanding of people and boundaries
resilience in the face of catastrophe and tragedy
consequences and wisdom
pain to overcome
the determination to fight injustice
Life is hard but living is knowing how to keep the goodness thriving in it.
Posted originally 3/25/2019 on I Write Her.
An Original

Inspired by Reena’s Xploration Challenge #384 &
Moonwashed Weekly Prompt
profoundly novel
with impulsive behavior
intoxicating
Unique
unlike another
individuality
standing tall and proud
Creation
Redux
memories of my yesteryears
my reflection a source of power
wisdom gained
propels me into my future
into peace
sometimes discomfort
but always forward
towards the refinement of myself
Originally posted on I Write Her on 3/2/2019.
Fragile
Redux
my enclosure
not a perfect design
so many ways to die easily
the interior
can be frail as well
so many ways to lose myself
Originally posted on I Write Her, 2/24/2019.








