
It’s Saturday morning and I slept in until 4:45AM. No walk today. I took a look at my list I made last night of things to do today and I have no idea how they will all get done (they won’t). I’m now behind on six letters of correspondence. My son’s birthday is Tuesday and I need to put his package together even though the USPS still probably won’t deliver it on time if it gets mailed today. (I just realized it’s been 4 years since I’ve seen my s☼nshine and 6 years since I’ve seen my daughter!) Where does the time go?
I recall back before I started working from home ten years ago, when I could spend my days writing, cooking, and cleaning … um, yeah, okay so I didn’t do much house cleaning, but writing and cooking was my life. I remember when I would reach out to people, they never had time to talk or respond because they were too busy. I couldn’t understand how everyone could be so busy to not have time to respond. I made the mistake of saying out loud, “God, maybe one day I’ll be so busy I don’t have time to respond”. Be careful what you wish for, or what you say to God because He listens.
Therefore, this brings me to today’s Empathy word: Engage. I promised to visit other blogs—and I will eventually. Too many times I see blog hoppers jump from blog to blog with a little generic template that says “here from A-Z, good luck with the challenge, blah, blah, blah”. Maybe that’s okay for a lot of people but I’m not going to do that. If I’m going to take the time to visit, you’ve taken the time to write it, I’m going to read it and at least make an effort to comment about what you wrote. As I’m writing this post today, I’m convicted about the template life has become.
Templates are something I use in my life daily at work. I have a whole folder of “Empathy Templates” for every situation that comes up. You know what the worse part of that is? It’s what our world has turned into. Even our daily life. I remember when I first moved to South Carolina from Maine and would watch the local news. I would freak out because every single night there would be a report of a shooting. How could that be? That never happened in Maine. Tall Cool ☺ne would say, “Happens all the time, you get used to hearing it.” The sad part about that is he’s right. We fall into the products of our environment.
It’s easy to get caught up in templates, generic responses. I do it all day long at work. People can’t pay their bill, there’s a template of how I understand what it’s like to be strapped not having the money to pay bills. People report a death, there’s a template how I understand because I’ve lost a loved one too. There’s a template for everything and I don’t even have to engage in what that person is really going through. It’s heartbreaking because this is what our world is now. We don’t have to engage because someone or something (Alexa, Siri…A.I.) has taken the time to put every response together for us. Do you know what I mean?
How many times do you send a text message and the person responds with a thumbs up or a heart or my pet peeve is prayer hands. (I think that is a templated response that too many people use and really don’t even pray.) Instead of me going off on a tangent I’m going to end for now. I need to engage in my Saturday morning list of things to do. Things for you to ponder: The next text or email you get, how can you engage instead of sending a templated response?
See you all here on Monday with F-words.
Cheers,























































































































































