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tobi

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tobi

@tobilisic

sabi boy • living • product design • seit 92

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Joined October 2010

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tobi
@tobilisic
Dec 26, 2025
yes. i love being me. i love my life. i love myself. and i’m grateful for all the ways my life is truly mine. a life that is 100% mine.
babygirl
@hoemie_
Dec 25, 2025
on top of loving my life, i love MYSELF. i love being me so bad it makes me so incredibly happy to be as amazing as i am lol.
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tobi
@tobilisic
Sep 7, 2024
lmao. men are struggling with this tweet You’ve never seen a snake and thought, ‘not all snakes,’ and then stayed in the same space with it. Yet, you expect women to make exceptions when they’ve never lived a trauma-free life because of men.
ThatPortharcourtBoy aka Nnukwu Nmanwu
@ThatPHCBoy
Sep 7, 2024
'Not all men' but immediately you see a snake in your house, you kill it. Meanwhile only 20 percent (~600 species) of snakes are venomous and only 7 percent (~200 species) of snakes are able to kill a human. So why didn't you confirm if it's venomous before killing it?
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tobi
@tobilisic
Mar 2, 2025
It’s so fucking hard to take care of yourself - cook, clean, market runs, etc., but you’ve to do it because you’re an adult. It’s unfair to offload all your burdens onto someone else (who’s got their own life as well) simply because you married them.
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tobi
@tobilisic
Mar 2, 2025
This is the third tweet I’m seeing today from Muslim men complaining about not being married during Ramadan and it’s not because of companionship but because of home duties. Sigh! Grown men o. How did you even make it to this point?
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tobi
@tobilisic
Jul 7, 2024
The first time Tayo took me around Munich, I had tears in my eyes. And that was because I saw people going for a swim, sitting by the lake, playing with their kids, etc., after work around 5pm. How Nigeria is designed denies you a full life.
Muiz
@muizonthegram
Jul 6, 2024
This country’s biggest crime is that it steals your youth from you. You don’t even realize how old you are as a 26/27 year old until you travel and realize that your agemates in proper countries started families 3 or 4 years ago. But you’re there at that age to start school.
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tobi
@tobilisic
Mar 29, 2024
“Never underestimate the ability of a man to defend another man he doesn't know as long as women are on the other end.”
Chef Human™
@WildChefHuman
Mar 29, 2024
Man’s lost his mom and is asking for a small wedding but some of you are here screaming “he doesn't want to marry her” with so much selfishness and ignorance.
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tobi
@tobilisic
Oct 12, 2025
“women do not ‘carry’ babies. they build every single cell of the baby’s body. they’re not passive vessels, unaffected & unencumbered by pregnancy. it invades every part of a woman’s body & life, often for years after.” this is what nigerian men trivialize.
Jessica Malone Grider
@mrs_g_rider
Oct 11, 2025
There's been a lot of discourse on this app the last few days about postpartum bodies, and I just want to remind you that more often than not, pregnancy will irrevocably change one's body, for better or for worse, regardless of what you do.
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tobi
@tobilisic
Jul 12, 2024
It’s not because of work. You just don’t want to participate in the emotional, physical, and mental labour of being a present parent. This is just a faux concern to maintain status quo.
Neto
@docneto
Jul 11, 2024
It was traditionally accepted that men generally spent too much time at work and undervalued their families. This often left them poorly fulfilled later in life. Somehow this damaging formula of the primacy of work is being sold to women as the ideal route to fulfillment. LOL!
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tobi
@tobilisic
Feb 2, 2025
Replying to @olobzjr
Someone once said “men do not fantasise about treating women well.” Even when they do, it’s probably because they’re attracted to them. So how dare you treat a woman well if you’re not a fool.
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tobi
@tobilisic
Jan 31, 2025
I think the government should ban relationships
Aunty Ruckus Firefly
@imohremi_
Jan 31, 2025
One issue I had with my man before was his obsessive need to be everyone's hero. One time he drove to take a "female friend" to the hospital because she had period cramps. We argued about it. So I went out and told him I had gone to help my male friend with how blue balls.
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tobi
@tobilisic
Sep 8, 2024
So you understand why humans run when they see snakes but you can’t comprehend why women default to all men based off of their experiences with men?
Tech/Finance Esq.
@NOTIMEisNOTIME
Sep 8, 2024
Replying to @tobilisic
Tobi for the sake of "base-level knowledge" , I think you should read this. When juxtaposing, ensure you compare the subject matter, based of their "base-level" characteristic. Now, come close let me explain to you in the language you will understand. At the base-level, a
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tobi
@tobilisic
Jan 31, 2025
Replying to @mideolabanji
😭😭😭 i wonder how they expect kindness from strangers if they think it should be reserved for just partners.
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tobi
@tobilisic
Jul 7, 2024
Replying to @tobilisic
You don’t fully grasp what Nigeria has taken from you until you step out of it and see people having a full life. Nigeria has taken so much and will continue to take until there’s a redesign.
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tobi
@tobilisic
Aug 11, 2025
you should not be involved with anyone who needs the fear of God to be a decent human being, even as friends. have we as a generation not learned anything from the generations before us?
Deraaaa❣️💜
@purple_dera
Aug 11, 2025
If the person you’re romantically involved with doesn’t fear God, That person isn’t going to fear lying to you, Manipulating you, Cheating on you and abusing you because without the fear of God, There’s no higher authority holding them accountable. Selah.
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