The ironic thing is that the behavior of these people goes against principles of home birth.
Most people do home birth to have an autonomous experience and avoid obstetric abuse.
It is also known that a birthing person can’t easily release the baby under pressure and stress.
Honestly how dare you look down your nose on an integral part of queer culture that has been giving us a safe space to celebrate since before you were born.
Respect your queer elders who fought for their right to celebrate and seek therapy!
Not that this type of judgement tends to care about facts - it’s actually relatively low risk.
All sex is risk even with confirm.
In 17 years and possibly thousands of bbbj, I got gonnorhea in my throat once and it wasn’t even a client and it was treated easily.
STIs happen