Previous life goal: (still in progress)
"Raise the quality of 'love' that people are willing to accept."
New life goal: (in tandem)
"Enable as many people as possible to enjoy being themselves."
why are you answering security questions honestly?
As far as I'm concerned my mother's maiden name is "Linguine" My first pet was a millipede named "Pebbles" and my first car was a "Pentium Processor"
My ex-wife used to get annoyed with me leaving the empty toilet paper tube on the floor underneath the (freshly refilled) new roll of toilet paper…
After a few weeks she stopped complaining and started storing them in my suitcase…then filmed my reaction the next time we packed.
Honest answer: I’m predicting between March and July 2021. Vaccines are being tested. Then they have to be approved / produced / distributed. Once everyone who isn’t anti-vax has it we can functionally return to normal.
You can ask her what she wants out of life, if she's on track to get it, and (assuming she's not) how long it's been since she's made progress. What are the roadblocks? Why the delays? What's getting prioritized over her?
if you want validation:
"ewww, that sounds awful!"
if you want theory:
"have you heard of spiritual bypassing? it's where you act like you've integrated but havent."
if you want hope:
"if you can feel that disconnect, you can probably feel your way back to the self"