Replying to @AITA_online and @AITA_reddit"I wasted 5 years of my life." No, Stacie wasted five years of her life. OP had 5 years to love, appreciate, & spend time with GF. Instead she focused so hard on not being poor, she ignored who her GF was & what they could have built. No honey, you RUINED 5 years of your life.