If life is so wise!
Why couldn't it teach yet
Or if being so dumb
It awaits for me since forever
To grow up more
Crests and troughs
Uncounted yet insurmountable
Still busy in learning this balancing act
Once a seeker
Is always seeker
Wandering if I could change its course
Yet quite comfortable
Being a wandering soul!!
Category: Psychology Talks
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Who is wise!!
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Emptying
Roaming around to get somewhere
While the destination is still unaware
For now halted the search to Unknown
Ceasing the trials
In a bid to influence the affirmations
Emptying the mind from everything known
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Intent : Unfazed
In the hustle of finishing too soon
Forming a web
Of confusing schemas,
Hijacked the mind
In multiple dilemmas
To decipher it's source code
Fatigued with numerous Alogrithms
Fazed out with hallucinations and delusions
Which one is the way out
And which isn't
Still going on
With some intent,,,
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Dissonance : Good or bad
How many times people feel that their actions represent their thoughts!! I hope if everyone thinks sincerely they will get alarming lower numbers, especially for things which are not usual occurances.
But that’s not food for thought to your mind here, which i want everyone to explore within themselves.
The main point is whenever such dissonance happens, how much tension it creates inside them. Is it Negligible😊 or Manageable 👍🏻 or Alarming which we continue suppress to our unconscious so that it won’t bother us!! 🥵🤫😔
There has been lot of studies on dissonance and the ways people take up to get rid of it.
1)Some people will simply change their attitude towards that thing so that it no more feel against their thoughts,
2) Some might endure trivilisation so that importance of it becomes minimum and thus it’s presence doesn’t bother much and,
3) Some or very few will change their actions to meet their thoughts.
Now one point to be noted here is , whatever we do we want to get rid of this tension due to disparity between our thoughts and actions. And making it more humane, isn’t it a direct attack on our thoughts, attitudes which is demanding a change???
I think absolutely, but it doesn’t mean that changing your behaviour or actions as per your attitude or thoughts is correct option always. So all 3 methods have their own applications in their right context.
1) Sometimes we need to change our thoughts or attitudes . For example people who believe in so much of superstitious or baseless traditions or life style process,, need to opt for a change in their attitude.
2) Sometimes when we need to quit some bad habits we need to change our actions.
3) And we need to go for trivialisation for matters which are just a common day to day hassle.
So is Dissonance good or bad? I think it’s good to have dissonance as it indicates some change is required for normalisation with present scenarios. But taking action to remove it is more important, as if we suppress it then it will loose its very purpose or meaning. And we, from inside will either become inhuman or will get filled with lot of anxiety issues or depression.
What you people think about it?
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1 more year added to the list
When I was in 20's
I felt it would be great in 30s
And now when I suddenly felt I am 37
I understood there is no heaven
It's all what we think
About whatever happens
And how much we are able to accept!!!
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Whirlwind struggle going forever!
Oh! Man you never stopped proposing,
Ever dreaming and planning,
And He never stopped discarding,
Disposing every planned yearning,,
What a disaster!
And disgust,
Yet the Ultimate reason
To laugh upon this tussle
Your ever-going propositions
And His never-ending dispositions
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Wandering mind
Me and I are sittin
Sippin my coffee
Black and bitter
Is what my buds are feelin,
Wanna think about somethin
Yet am stuck at nothin
Can’t stop my mind wanderin
From inner urges to external purges
How much distance it’s coverin
Yet its not making me wonderin,
What should It be doin,
Where should it be goin,
What direction it must be headin,
Watching it silently how it’s strugglin,,
More it tries to get focussed,
Worse it gets in getting any hold,
Confused or being lost,
While choosing from probabilities stall,
Is it afraid in this gade,
Like standing on the edge of blade,
I am still thinkin
And still sippin
It’s still bitter
But my brain stop it recevin
Maybe my buds were too thinkin
While my mind was continuously blinkin,,
© Sanjay Ranout
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Another Emotionless day!
Behind thick fog
Blurred vision
Here comes a rider
With scratched visor
Pacing up slowly
His noisy bike
Going on and on
In an emotionless state
Everyone wonders about his destination
But he is not bothered
As long as he continues riding,,
©Sanjay Ranout
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Divided self
In the midst of journey,
Finding myself in yet another war,
Rebellion thoughts resisting the socialist bars.
Choosing among the plethora of arsenals,
Social mindset seems the heavier side,
But with undeterred and determined thoughts,
Rebellious callings riding the high tides.
Amidst this turmoil,
Being confused and frustrated,
Which side will win or lose,
Will I be delighted for win?
Or disappointed with the loss?
Its standing question with million odds.
As hailing from the same source,
Emotions behind the result,
May not lead to usual bulks.
So here a decision to decide,
If to opt for a balancing stride,
Or let rise one of the sides,
Such is the battle among the thoughts,
Brutal and frustrating,
When oneself divides itself to different sides,
©Sanjay Ranout
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It has no end,
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
It’s quite a fantasy oriented question, and mostly People will decide upon a place and situation which will transform their life into more satisfying, fulfilling, loving and comfortable form with presence of all the people they love alongside and possessing all things they love or fantasize of.
But I think, the place where we aspire of living, Are people living there are feeling so satisfying and happy as how we aspire or think would have??
And if they are asked same question, wouldn’t they name another place for them ??
I think there are few human beings who are feeling content at place they are! And thus it doesn’t matter where we are living or we aspire to live will make us feel satisfied and happy permanently.
Yeah! It must be applicable to people living in utmost dreaded situations due to urgency of not getting basic needs being fulfilled and insecurity to their lives, and they might be thinking it as better to move on to some better peaceful and prosperous place.
But if asked generally, i think it’s vicious cycle due to never-ending greed and fantasy filled imaginative human mind, As where some people will aspire to live , the people already living there must be aspiring to move to some other place. If not on earth then in space 😆
What lies beneath our thoughts! 