
“”He would play at Largo where he would do comedy shows, so there was crossover when me and Mary Lynn did Girls Guitar Club and he came and was our guest on the show, just because he was in town and Flanagan got him to do it or whatever, and I think we had eighteen people in the crowd, it was not a sellout show in any way. My friend David still thanks me for it, like ‘I can’t believe I was there and I got to see that intimate show and he played his own songs!’ Afterwards we were standing in the back because our act that I did with my friend Mary Lynn, it was all just like ‘play the guitar even if you don’t know how to’, and then we’d go into a cover where we’re barely doing the open chords and stuff, and it got a little better as it went on.
I got to have a conversation with him after. He was complimenting what we did and I was like, ‘please don’t do this, I’ll have a nervous breakdown!’ and then he started talking to me about how much his voice bothered him.This is what artists do to themselves. Nothing is good enough, it’s always bad. That person, who was the least disappointing performer and musician I’d ever experienced every time I watched him perform, like when he was on the Oscars and he was so vulnerable, and it was perfection, and to hear him just being like, I’m sorry, I wish my voice was better’, and I was like, ‘No, no, no, please don’t do it’ – it inspired me later, because I love to pull myself apart and that’s why you don’t do anything, and it made me later just go ‘don’t shut the door on yourself cause you’ve decided it isn’t good, when people love it.'”
Karen Kilgariff






















































