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Obstacles = Opportunities

I have to say instead of writing a blog this morning I wrote in my journal after I had my Bible Study.  Bible study always comes first before anything else and this morning I struggled with a verse and I couldn’t let it go until I understood it.  Ever have a time when you read something and it just doesn’t make any sense at all?  So I wrote in my journal until it finally made sense to me and needless to say, it was time to go walk and no time to write.  Then, when I was trying to explain why I couldn’t understand it to Tall Cool ☺ne, he told me I had a carnival going on in my head.

Quick story to explain what he means by that.  We recently got rain barrels to help with keeping the garden and flowers hydrated without draining the well.  There was an obstacle filling the watering cans.  Water jugs didn’t fit under the spigot. Tall Cool ☺ne is so smart.  He just took an old hose, cut and hooked it to the first rain barrel, and voila, the water goes into watering can without issue.  I asked why he hooked it to the first one and not the second one.  When the rain comes out of the gutter it pours into the first rain barrel and then there is a hose on the back that drains into the second barrel. He looked at me like I had three heads and asked, “What are you talking about?”  I was thinking rotation and use the old first.  He said, “You have too many things going on in that head of yours. It is water and rain barrels, let me worry about where the water goes.”  Okay, but it totally made sense to me.

Obstacles equal opportunities.  The rain barrel is just an example and that really has nothing to do with empathy.  But I look back at obstacles that I thought were preventing me from doing something when in fact they were there to help me learn something. Those experiences can be used to share with others when they need help or examples.

My obstacle today caused me not to do so well in surveys at work.  We earn part of our salary based on a percentage of good surveys.  A lot of times it is something we have no control over; system issues, people don’t understand the survey system: 1 is bad and 10 is good.  Reading is fundamental and some people don’t read.  Most times it’s lack of empathy, or at least that’s what they tell me. Sometimes I just don’t have it in me. But I can tell you what my going forward plan is …. not only will I consider getting up at 3AM instead of 3:20 but something I hate, but I like my bigger paychecks, so more empathy work templates it is.  I will try my hardest not to have that obstacle again.

What kind of obstacles have you faced that can be used as opportunities?

Cheers,

   

Obstacles = Opportunities in Disguise

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I found this great photo and realized it’s another article about obstacles being opportunities… click on it and read it.

Obstacles are something that impede the progress or achievement of a mission.

We are faced with obstacles every day. When you think about it, obstacles have interfered with some form of our advancement ever since we were born. There is the crib and then the playpen and perhaps the walker isn’t small enough to fit through certain doorways, and then maybe even a fenced in back yard acted as an obstacle.

Once we get older and are able to go to school there are different obstacles. Grades that don’t meet the standards delay advancement to the next grade. Certain curricula must be met prior to succession to a more preferred syllabus. There is no degree or decree without first overcoming certain obstacles.

Occupational obstacles are even more challenging. Depending on what type of position you hold there is age and discrimination obstacles, lack of skills and experience, bad work history or background references, personality conflicts with co-workers, etc. The list could go on and on.

Life is filled with obstacles. They a normal part of existence. The key to making the most out of the obstacles we run into is to look at them as an opportunity opposed to a problem. What can we do to work around this obstacle?

For example, today I ran into an obstacle finding the time to sit down at my computer and write this article. There were prior engagements that needed to be taken care of, and I did not allow myself enough time this morning. I wrote the article out by hand while waiting in the doctor’s office. Not my preferred method of blogging, but it worked. I also passed along the name of my novel, and where it could be found. It seems like every time I’m writing in a notebook in a waiting room someone asks me what I’m working on. When I tell them I’m a writer, they become very interested, and want to know all about it. I used the obstacle as an advantage.

Sometimes obstacles save you from going through something that could be worse. The other day we were traveling our normal route to the grocery store. We were detained for a long funeral procession. It must have been someone important because there were several firetrucks and a very long line of followers. After we waited for the traffic to pass, and were able to be on our way, we were less than two miles down the road when we came up on a very bad car accident. Had we not been held up by the funeral procession we may have been involved in that accident.

Obstacles are put in our path for a reason. Take the time to find out why they have been placed there and use that opportunity to the best of your ability.

What kind of obstacles have you been facing lately? Have you seen the opportunity they provide?  I’d love to hear about them.

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