
I have to say instead of writing a blog this morning I wrote in my journal after I had my Bible Study. Bible study always comes first before anything else and this morning I struggled with a verse and I couldn’t let it go until I understood it. Ever have a time when you read something and it just doesn’t make any sense at all? So I wrote in my journal until it finally made sense to me and needless to say, it was time to go walk and no time to write. Then, when I was trying to explain why I couldn’t understand it to Tall Cool ☺ne, he told me I had a carnival going on in my head.
Quick story to explain what he means by that. We recently got rain barrels to help with keeping the garden and flowers hydrated without draining the well. There was an obstacle filling the watering cans. Water jugs didn’t fit under the spigot. Tall Cool ☺ne is so smart. He just took an old hose, cut and hooked it to the first rain barrel, and voila, the water goes into watering can without issue. I asked why he hooked it to the first one and not the second one. When the rain comes out of the gutter it pours into the first rain barrel and then there is a hose on the back that drains into the second barrel. He looked at me like I had three heads and asked, “What are you talking about?” I was thinking rotation and use the old first. He said, “You have too many things going on in that head of yours. It is water and rain barrels, let me worry about where the water goes.” Okay, but it totally made sense to me.
Obstacles equal opportunities. The rain barrel is just an example and that really has nothing to do with empathy. But I look back at obstacles that I thought were preventing me from doing something when in fact they were there to help me learn something. Those experiences can be used to share with others when they need help or examples.
My obstacle today caused me not to do so well in surveys at work. We earn part of our salary based on a percentage of good surveys. A lot of times it is something we have no control over; system issues, people don’t understand the survey system: 1 is bad and 10 is good. Reading is fundamental and some people don’t read. Most times it’s lack of empathy, or at least that’s what they tell me. Sometimes I just don’t have it in me. But I can tell you what my going forward plan is …. not only will I consider getting up at 3AM instead of 3:20 but something I hate, but I like my bigger paychecks, so more empathy work templates it is. I will try my hardest not to have that obstacle again.
What kind of obstacles have you faced that can be used as opportunities?
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