Rule No. 3: There Are No Mistakes, Only Lessons

THERE ARE NO MISTAKES,  ONLY LESSONS.  Growth is a process of trial and error:  Experimentation.  The “failed” experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiment that ultimately “works.” Take a moment and remember yourself five years ago.  Are you the same person? What have you learned?  Think of something that upset […]

Notes to Self – January 13, 2014

As I wrote in the first of Notes to Self, these are to clear up any confusion or questions from the AWOL manual, “When to Lay the Weapons Down,” being published serially here. Much of the manual plays off of Rules for Being Human. Because this is a blog, I break individual chapters into parts, […]

Rule No. 2: You Will Learn Lessons, Part 2

Part 1 can be found here. Note:  Just a reminder that this was written for attorneys.  Adapt and apply, the principles are the same. Each one of us is born with an inner map, an inner navigator.  Our choice, no matter how we spin or weave reasons to err.  It always keeps coming back to […]

To My Friend, Maggie & Her Very Special Girlie, Carrie

Got word about 6:00 p.m. tonight that my dear friend Maggie, who has more aliases than a veteran CIA agent, had to say goodbye to one of her pack of three permanent greyhounds. I met Maggie because she fostered Ella, nee Dena’s Diamond, my current Chaser here at Chasing Rabbit Holes. The first time I […]

Rule No. 2: You Will Learn Lessons

YOU WILL LEARN LESSONS. You are enrolled in a full-time informal school called Life. Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to learn lessons. You may like the lessons or think them irrelevant and stupid. What is the point of our being here, precisely here in this time and space? Why now, […]

Keep an Eye on Robert Gates’ New Book: “Duty”

Yesterday, Bob Woodward and Max Fisher of the Washington Post each wrote a review of former Secretary of Defense, Robert Gates’ book, “Duty,” coming out on January 14, 2014. It’s causing ripples and outcries as this man was considered on both sides, Democrat and Republican, to be outstanding in his service for both the Bush […]