In 2005 I created AmExpression and began my journey into the blogging world. It was fun, therapeutic, and I met so many wonderful people, many of whom are still my friends today, and we keep up with each other on facebook. I had to take down AmExpression suddenly a few years later due to unforeseen circumstances; twas a sad day, indeed. I began BlendingAme when I married in 2009.
I write mostly for me. It’s therapy for me.
And I write to remember … my journey … where I’ve come from … what God has done in my life.
So, Welcome! This is my little dot of space in an ever-expanding cyber world. Feel free to comment if you’d like, or not. You are also welcome to email me at talkiname at gmail dot com.
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I have written out My Story in multiple posts and numbered most all of them. The posts that are not numbered are random pieces of my story. If you want to read from the beginning, scroll down to the first post; it will be easy to find.
You can find them here and under the Category, “My Story,” in the sidebar.
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Also, if interested, I have written a post titled, What I Believe, and there is another post about Salvation in Jesus Christ titled, Salvation Explained Well.
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“…God who brings the dead back to life and
who creates new things out of nothing.“
Romans 4:17b
i am just hurting really really badly right now, and i don’t want to drag anyone else in to it.
thank you for checking on me though.
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Okay. Thank you for letting me know. I will be praying for you. Please read the Bible. I have been concerned.
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Thought you might be interested in my further thoughts.
Just following up on this:
if you ever stopped treating him with respect then all you’ve built would be destroyed. and he would remember it. and the way he experiences your ‘love’ for him would never be the same again.
All I can tell you is this:
When a man’s wife or long term woman disrespects him one too many times, whatever existed before is completely destroyed. Gone. Whatever he felt for her – gone. Whatever he was willing to do for her before, he’s no longer willing to do, or capable of doing. Everything. Gone. Leveled. Not one stone left standing on stone.
And he never forgets it. Oh, he can forgive. He can move on. You can even move on together. But the things you said, the things you did, to destroy it all, are never forgotten. Not ever. Some things you say, you cannot unsay. You can’t take them back. Some things you do cannot be undone. That history will always be there. Always. It will never ever go away. It will always color the way he sees you. You will be forever different to him.
He can, and probably will, get past it eventually. Your relationship might survive. But whatever it was before will not be again. You will have to reconstruct everything. What is built back will not look like what was before. Many times, it will not look anything like what it was before. And you will have to live with that. Or not.
A man can take a lot of disrespect from a woman. And he can go a long time with it. But when you get to “too much” or “one too many times”, it’s done. DONE. OVER. You’ve knocked it all down, destroyed it all. And whatever was before, will never be again.
Perhaps a little food for thought for the womenfolk as they wisely and prudently consider their men.
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thank you, Deti, for stopping by and sharing that wisdom. there are so many truths that you Men share out here, and i’m so appreciative of the time you take to do so. i wish i’d known these things when i was younger 🙂
i find it intriguing how much men will put up with … but once that line is crossed it can never be un-crossed.
i’m passionate about marriage – always have been. i’ll always be deeply saddened my first one ended as it did 😦 . i hope i can help and influence other women positively about all this.
all of your stories out there help me be a better wife, mother, and woman. thank you.
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I saw your question at Spawnys about protonmail.
no email is secure, but protonmail is a lot safer than gmail, hotmaill, etc. gmail scrapes your emails for info to use for advertising.
i got rid of gmail & hotmail, and only use protonmail now.
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Ah, thank you, Moi, that makes sense now.
How are you?!
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Ame, TXHC is still a ‘no’ for 19-23 Dec?
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Hi, IKR.
Unfortunately, still a no. Traveling right now just isn’t possible on multiple levels 😓.
However, what an incredible blessing gift you are to your Oma and what an incredible gift to take her to visit.
Thank you for checking again.
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