one of my biggest fear in arranged marriage is that the man will suppress his negative side and show his true colour only after marriage because I’ve seen it happen in real life and it’s fucking scary how men literally change personalities overnight.
I'm a good daughter by Indian standards and now at the age of 26, I'm telling you that it has been a fucking waste. I wish I wasn't such a goody two shoes in my late teens to early 20s.
my fellow menstruators, do you ever get really sad like really depressed and then remember that your period is due and then you feel all better because it's a biological sadness not REAL sadness you know what I mean??
gynaecologists look at an unmarried woman in India and diagnose her with “unmarriedness” as a medical condition. no seriously, I tell doctors about my PCOD (and other symptoms) and they will tell “this will get solved after marriage 😊” with no hint of irony.
my father read a WhatsApp forward which said that Indian parents don’t tell their kids that they are proud of them and now my father tells me at odd moments at least once a day that he is “proud of his daughter” 😭
ordered Chinese because idk how long I'll have the sense of taste and the zomato delivery guy asked me to rate him 1 star because his rating is so good that they keep sending him to far off places.
first time rating any delivery guy 1 star lmao
I've been both conventionally ugly and conventionally attractive and believe me when I say that the world definitely treats you better when you are pretty. this idea that real beauty is inner beauty is pure hogwash.