I had someone tell me that volunteering would fix my depression because I would see how good I have it compared to some people and I was like, that’s not how it works
you sound incredibly arrogant but I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt & assume you’re ND. just tell people what you want. passive-aggressiveness and unspoken rules/expectations ain’t it. friendships are built on trust and communication; if you don’t want to do something, don’t