I am increasingly convinced there is a category of thing that I am going to tentatively call an ‘Autism Trap’.
Dangerous rabbit holes that will suck in autists and cause them to go round and round in circles for all of eternity
I think most of theology falls into this
I really like that phrase - shifting your location of identification. It also explains why some people like media, some people like drugs… both give you a break from being “you” for a bit
I think I like two modes
Either:
Fisherman sweater. Jersey with a nice shirt on underneath
Or:
Full anime Lelouch Lamperouge mode
I think a person should either be cosy or flamboyant
Robert Jordan - what if I made a magic system based on BDSM? And then spent 10 having all my main characters spanked for increasingly contrived plot reasons?