It’s also kinda shitty that the “slave species” also has a lot of African cultural aspects incorporated into their portrayal via style of dress and adornment and the usage of African style dialects and clicks in their speech.
And he needs to come to her with that question offering the same. Not while in some dingy sweats and a sloppy jacket in the wrong size while having clearly not bathed for a few days. He wants something bright to the table then he needs to bring that same thing to the table
That’s kinda exactly my point. You’ll have men their perspective that women only like muscular guys and then when a GORGEOUS woman picks an ugly guy with an average build he pulls “you must be an 11/10 at all times to be with me” when he should be sobbing over how lucky he is.