Girl! I met a guy on a dating app. We exchanged numbers. Convo totally normal till he says “I’ll hit you Monday. I’m with my girl.” I said, my apologies. I thought you were single since we met on a dating app.
I gotta disagree. He was a 14 year drug dealer in the late 80’s/early 90’s in NYC who never did a day in jail. Became the hottest rapper and now is in his third act as a business man & philanthropist. No Black man in America has that kinda life without being smart.
A girl in one of the groups asked if her man, a party promoter in NYC was talking to other women. I said, that’s literally his job. We have a lack of seriousness coast to coast
Yes there’s definitely a notion that a woman is supposed to be in service to someone else (partner and or kids). So it’s like, hey lady who do you think you are opting out of perpetual servitude just because it looks like an unpaid thankless job
Isn’t Amber from Philly with a Black mom? She was a stripper at a place frequented by rappers. We came to know her through a Black rapper. Then she married another Black rapper. What Black spaces didn’t accept her? Must’ve been during early childhood.
My ex & I were living together and broke when I found out he had been lying to me while I was waiting for my grandmother to pass. There were days when I was sure I would die because the emotional pain literally caused me physical pain in a way I had never experienced. It’s real.