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Gary Andrews
@GaryScribbler
Animator, artist and illustrator. Doodleaday Diary charting widowerhood, solo parenting and love after loss. Author of ‘Finding Joy’. Glass half full.
UK
Joined December 2011
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    A few links to places where my book is available for pre-order... @Waterstones: waterstones.com/book/finding-j… @Foyles: foyles.co.uk/witem/children… Amazon: amazon.co.uk/Finding-Joy-Ga… If you prefer to shop local, you can find your nearest independent bookshop here: booksellers.org.uk/industryinfo/i…
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    Half a year. Still hard to process. Keep expecting you to come through the door. #doodleaday #widowerlife
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    3rd Christmas without her. She loved this time of year and really knew how to do it well. Still hard to not turn around and see that smile but damn, I was lucky to have her at all. Treasure what you have people. Count your blessings. Love each other. 💜
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    Farewell to my love #doodleaday No more words.
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    Nearly 5 months gone. Didn’t think I had any more heart left to break but it turns out I was wrong. So beautiful and talented. #Sepsis sucks. #doodleaday #widowerlife
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    The pull to share everything is so strong. I constantly think “she’ll love this” or “can’t wait to tell her about that”. It’s true - she is always with me. Even though thanks to #Sepsis she isn’t. #doodleaday #widowerlife
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    What’s always so amazing is how suddenly your feelings can change - and change back again. Grief is an unpredictable companion. Getting used to it though. Friends are amazing and an absolute lifeline. Be open with everyone #doodleaday #widowerlife #sepsissucks #copingwithgrief
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    It seemed like flu but then it all happened so fast. If you have ANY suspicion at all, ask to be checked for Sepsis. 5 months on its still hard to believe she’s gone. Love persists though. @UKSepsisTrust @SepsisUK #widowerlife
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    She has had to endure such a heartbreaking loss and has done it with such grace and maturity it leaves me utterly speechless. My incredible daughter. #doodleaday #widowerlife #thewisdomofchildren
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    At the risk of letting her steal my thunder somewhat - my 11 year old daughter painted this portrait of playwright R.C.Sheriff as part of her school WW1 project today. I am rather impressed and more than a little proud. #widowerlife #prouddad
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    It’s been a positive day and amazing year really, but as Ben said to me this morning, “Wouldn’t it be good if there was a green Chinese dragon that granted wishes and we could ask for mum to come back?” Yes Ben. Yes it would. #doodleaday #widowerlife
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    The last 24 hours have been so humbling. I never expected such an overwhelming response to the @BBCTheOneShow interview. Thank you all so much. And thank you for spreading the word about #sepsis. Together we can beat this killer. #doodleaday #widowerlife #sepsisawareness
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    “Come What May” from Moulin Rouge. “I will love you, until my dying day...”. Our first dance. Cue one complete mess... I’m ok now but that was a big one. It never goes away. #doodleaday #widowerlife #loveneverdies #powerofmusic
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    It may be a small thing but it means a lot. And it’s positive. She would totally get it. I feel like I have emerged from a tunnel. And she is encouraging me to move on. #doodleaday #widowerlife #loveneverdies #always