Tying open mindedness and willingness to change positions to masculinity is hilarious bc men have historically been a lot less open minded to change and progress than women
Yeah, I’ve realized men view sex as a violent act they do to women instead of an intimate act they do together. it reflects in the language they use. i.e. “cracked, hit, smashed”. Etc. it’s disgusting
Change can speak for itself. If you changed your ways and grew as a person you don’t need to consistently bring up the change or what happened before. If you do, it just seems rather shallow and performative