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The Extended 4tran Survey (2025.2) Results!
Here is the results page for the Extended 4tran Survey (2025.2) (a follow up survey to the original 2025 4tran Survey), and got 1,675 (real) responses.
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@DesiresAreGrey
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- Replying to @Cherrychip_on r/mtf you get downvoted and your posts get removed whenever you talk or even hint about having dysphoria. it’s such an awful subreddit and no one who is actually mtf should use it
- (trans) men blaming (trans) women for their own gender’s lack of supporting each other the greatest proof that trans men are men
- “i need trans women to stop infantilizing trans men when they could, idk, use that energy to infantalize trans men compassionately instead”
- these are just terfs we need to actually start calling these people out for what they really areapparently literally all transition is now transmedicalism
- i see trans men as men that is until they call themselves afab
- this is because a large portion of the nonbinary community are actually just larping TERFs
- why is it always cıs and nonbinary people who think that they get to define what it means to be a binary trans person? maybe im crazy but i think binary trans people know the best on what it means to be one.
- why do trans men insist on infantilizing themselves and calling themselves women? do they not want to be men?
- why do so many trans men choose to still see themselves as women? why do they view it as “self love” instead of what it actually is (self hate)
- blaming the entire trans community for something the men specifically have an issue with is in fact consciously including women in a conversation where we are not relevant. complain about TRANS MEN not the entire TRANS COMMUNITY if your issue is with the men.
- voice is the biggest thing when it comes to passing if you have masculine features but have and extremely feminine voice, most people assume you’re a cıshon or something if you have extremely feminine features but have a masculine voice, people will assume you’re trans/etc
- “trans joy” is like the joy a cancer patient would get when they find out they’re able to get chemotherapy. it’s joy that you can finally (try to) treat an issue you have. but the joy is only temporary and if you know that if you didn’t have cancer in the first place… (cont)
- the worst part is that afaik r/mtf is like this because of 1 mod (the head mod) who is a nontransitioning bigender person, and will remove any mod who disagrees with him maybe im crazy but r/mtf should be mean for mtfs….everyone hates the 4chan trans for being the way they are, and I'm not going to say they're wrong for that necessarily, but in terms of overall damage the biggest reddit trans subreddits are worse
