I mean you couldn’t ask for a more clarified symbol of American values than a shopping mall at the WTC site. Maybe I’m being cynical but I don’t think we deserve anything better than that after the way New Yorkers lost their shit at the prospect of a Muslim cultural center there.
Back in the day I remember all these white internet comedians clowning and saying “what is this song about? Nobody knows!”. Listening as an adult it seems pretty obvious the meaning.
I don’t think people understand that butchfemme is not a checklist and that if something is impossible or undesired in your *own* relationship you can talk about it with your partner and find a way forward that works for both of you. Just like every other queer relationship.