Idk about others, but I go on dates with people I already have a thing going on with
(Unless it's a first date) and in that case it usually becomes a thing down the line
I remember when I was really little I woke up in the middle of the night to pee, then I saw my dad drinking tea in the living room, I asked him for some and he made a fresh one for both of us, it was so hot so I dropped the mug spilling it all. He sighed and made another for me.