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Vanisl - Dominating subs since 1998
A bit about Me:
Prior to moving to Kamloops in Aug/09 I was a lifetime resident of Victoria where I practiced kink for 12 years. Along the way, I have had the pleasure of mentoring and teaching some great submissives.
I am active in the BDSM community. A part of which involves hosting munches and play parties in the Kamloops area. I also attend munches, educational workshops and play parties throughout parts of Canada and the US.
I enjoy a Daddy Dom dynamic as well as many principals of the TiH philosophy and way of life. I enjoy a wide variety of kinks from mild to intense but My primary focus is on D/s, TPE and edgier play. I continue to expand My exposure to different kinks and fetishes to continue to grow and develop Myself and My style of play. I have a huge assortment of toys and equipment that is ever increasing! Some may even say I have a fetish for collecting toys and equipment! *evil grin*
Meeting new kinky friends and talking with people about the lifestyle is a passion of Mine; always willing to learn as well as share my knowledge with others. I also enjoy just simply chatting over a cup of coffee.
I take great pleasure in the physical and visual attraction to people through avenues such as people watching and amateur erotic photography.
What I enjoy in a submissive is rather simple:
Good manners and respect are a must as is honesty. Bratty can be fun but should be reserved for the right time/place. I feed off of a submissive's eagerness and desire to submit .
I enjoy a real life power exchange dynamic. Rules must be followed and discipline should be expected if rules are broken. In keeping with what I believe is effective in teaching and training, discipline is primarily physical punishment so that we may properly deal with the infraction, have closure and move forward.
I very much believe in orgasm control and denial - orgasms are a privilege and will be given only when they are truly deserved.
I will often assign tasks to give a sub opportunities to show her submission and dedication. Tasks may include writing, video or photo assignments, pushing pain limits, humiliation and/or public exposure. (To name a few! *evil grin*)
I believe a sub should be treasured and be respected for her gifts of loyalty, servitude and submission. Feel free to drop Me a line if you'd like to know more.
Please note that while I do have a primary partner, I am open to perhaps finding others for submission and/or occasional play.
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