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BBW Kinkster in PENTICTON, BC, Canada
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♥ I am looking for one SINGLE Big Handsome ♥
♥ Man, age 47-60, for a committed LTR. ♥
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If you are involved in ANY type of relationship with anyone else, please just pass me by. I am not interested in poly, open relationships, or possibly being a party to your cheating. Thank you.
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ABOUT ME:
Well, I guess you can tell I am seriously looking for my own life partner.
I want it all - someone who blends into everything vanilla in my life AND is compatible with me kink-wise. And I want to find this in one man. I love the idea of belonging to my own special someone, meeting each other's emotional needs, balancing out each other's strengths and weaknesses and building a happy life together. I readily work at accepting my own limitations with some grace and a good laugh, and hope you do as well.
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I have a strong, dominant personality. So outside of sex and kink-play, I prefer a more equal relationship in terms of power and being in control. I am open to following your lead in daily matters, but will not guarantee compliance on my part. Full submission is really not my thing. LOL
Honestly, I'm not sure how to describe myself in the world of kink. Despite having a dominant personality, I am usually in the submissive/bottom position and the receiver of kink activities. For me, kink is mostly about exploring new and different sensations and sexual feelings - like a different type of "extended foreplay."
Also, while I'm not really a Switch, I sometimes enjoy providing bondage, sensory deprivation and sensation play for my guy. But I am unwilling to provide spankings. Ideally, I'd prefer that you're mostly, or only, a Dom/Top/Giver of kink play.
Sexually, I am usually submissive. I love rough sex and being told what to do and how to do it. I love being physically pushed into the position you want me in, or having you guide me there by grabbing a fistful of my hair. I really love it when a man takes total control sexually. I love lots and lots of healthy, energetic and long-lasting sex all the time. If I feel I need more sex, I will definitely initiate things.
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One more thing you should know about me is that I have Mageirocophobia, which is a fear of cooking. This means that I don't prepare meals and/or cook - well, not in the kitchen anyway. ;-) So, if this is a deal breaker for you, then it's best you know now, before we get something going. And if it's any consolation, I LOVE doing laundry. LOL
Otherwise, I am happy with who I am and where I'm at in life. All I'm missing now is a loving, special man to share my life with. Are YOU this man? :-)
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I live very close to Penticton, BC, and prefer to remain in this area because my family is here and the temperature works best for my arthritis.
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MY 'IDEAL' MAN: BHM Top, age 47-60
PHYSICAL CHARACTERISTICS:
• at least 5'8" tall (or taller)
• in my preferred age range (or within 1-2 years of this range)
• have a large, full body (lots of padding)
• have strong, full, thick legs
• a hairy chest and tummy (the more there is, the better I like it)
• hopefully, have a prominent butt ;~)
THINGS I WOULD LIKE IN A PARTNER:
Honest, dedicated and passionate; attractive to me, especially on the inside; someone who gets my jokes and loves to laugh; and someone who can carry on a conversation with honesty, intelligence, and compassion on a wide variety of topics including things outside the lifestyle as well. I really appreciate a man who is secure enough in himself that he can accept his limitations with some grace and a good laugh.
I want this man to be my last great lover, companion, and life partner. He would willingly earn and keep my total respect and trust through honesty and open communication. Most important of all, I want this man and I to be best friends. ~smiles~
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I know this is strange, but I'm deathly afraid of CATS and spiders. If you have one or more of these as a pet, please be willing to not have them, or else pass me by. Thank you.
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Please be a man who does not smoke, does not use drugs and does not drink alcohol, or only has one or two drinks, once or twice a year. Thank you.
MORE STUFF ABOUT ME:
Things I love to do:
REGULARLY:
• lots of sex and kink play with my partner
• nude sunbathing at the beach (hopefully, my partner will want to do this with me on a very regular basis, even if he still wears shorts)
• socializing with my kids, friends and family
• hugging, kissing and cuddling often
• sending or receiving an 'I love you' text out of the blue
• holding hands almost all the time we're together
• curling up together and watching movies
• watching UFC at the pub with friends
• watching the Canucks
• playing with my dog, walking, being out in nature
• reading, listening to music
• jigsaw puzzles, board games, card games
• gardening/landscaping, yard sales, some exercising
OCCASIONALLY
• travelling, horseback riding, bowling, dancing, cross-country skiing and home improvement projects
MY BDSM QUIZ RESULTS
Experimental 79%
Bondage 75%
Submissive 69%
Masochist 53%
Exhibitionist/Voyeur 39%
Switch 21%
Vanilla 11%
Dominant 7%
Sadist 7%
Degradation 0%
PERSONALITY TYPE
I have taken the Meyer's Briggs "Personality Type" quiz. I have an ISFJ personality type, with the following breakdown:
Introverted - 44%; Sensing - 88%; Feeling - 88%; Judging - 22%.
If you're interested in taking the test as well, you can find it at this link:
[http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp]
WARNING:
Any persons or institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, or any other purpose - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have used them or do use them, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.
It is strongly recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.
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