I've been involved with BDSM for well over a decade and my experiences have led me to acknowledge and appreciate my life sexually, psychologically, and artistically. While I can be creatively sadistic I also take great pleasure in exerting control in a sagacious manner and attempt to understand the emotional aspects of a submissives psyche.
I'm a firm believer in safe, sane and consensual play and that communication, trust and respect are essential in any relationship. That being said, I seek a woman who knows what it means to be accountable for their actions. And while I believe that sexuality can be approached with playfulness and an open and accepting mind I'm flexible in my view of the possible. Although I use pain as part of my repertoire it's not an end unto itself and best understood as complete sensation.
"In the end, only three things matter: how fully you have lived, how deeply you have loved, and how well you have learned to let go of the things not meant for you."
~ Buddhist saying
