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Romance Science Fiction

Read Plummeting Hearts

Read Octavia Kore Books | Venora Mates

Venora Mates is dealing with a war with the Grutex and humanity in which we are losing. Venora Mates Series Guardians Of Inore Guardians of Inore is a spin off from Kept from the Deep.…

Another novella from Claimed Among the Stars.

New to me author, would read again.

I appreciated that this took the tropes of sci-fi romance and expanded on them: yes she’s a nurse, and so are the love interests; yes there’s a mating fever, and they both hold out through pain to be sure there’s full consent and they can include the third partner; yes there’s two men and a woman, and the men are in love before ever meeting her, not just in love with her; yes there are fated mates, and they choose their third who’s not fated; yes they crash land from a space cruise, and are with a group of other survivors who they work with to help.

Feels like real representation of the Filipino character, pulling in pieces of Filipino culture and lore.

Also introduces an intriguing world that’ll probably be a spinoff series — it’s not explained enough (why haven’t the aliens powered up their fancy old tech in so long?), but feels alien in nature.

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Weeknotes

Weeknotes: Oct. 28-Nov. 3, 2023

We were lazy for Halloween and just put out a bowl of candy — only half the candy got taken, and I had the good shit: full size Reese’s. The first couple years we lived here, we were a destination Halloween neighborhood and gave out like 150 pieces of candy, so 25 pieces feels pretty low. Do fewer kids trick or treat in neighborhoods than ten years ago, or are the kids’ families who live here today less organizers/ inviters than past parents? Or is it just that it was Tuesday? 🍬🎃 👻

Stuff I did:

  • 8.25 hours writing — revisited my timeline and travel times between locations — I’m having Doubts about the ending so I’ll need to dig into that next week
  • Tidied up the storage space under the stairs
  • Researched new smoke detectors but haven’t decided yet
  • Helped my husband get ready for an international trip
  • One appointment
  • Walked with my friend once
  • Voted
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Outreach

Internal comms as external comms

Liked Why these Welsh weeknotes are so good (gilest.org)

These notes are published on the web. They’re open. They’re external comms as well as internal governance.

This is an attribute of good agile communication: rather than doing the work, then crafting careful PR-style messages about how brilliant it is, your task is different. You do the work, and you peel back the wrappings so that the outside world can peer in and see for themselves how brilliant it is.

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Romance Science Fiction

Read 2 Claimed Among the Stars novellas

Read Claimed Among the Stars

Hearts in zero gravity are free to fall, and destiny awaits unsuspecting heroines far across the galaxy. Whether you love a trip that’s nice and easy or dark and intense, this collaboration of more than fifty bestselling authors is guaranteed to please.

Scarlett and the Alien Savage by Liz Paffle 
Tarzan in space. Heroine somehow dense as a brick. Mystical “important” artifacts didn’t really pay off. Very abrupt ending that I didn’t think worked.

Reaver’s Kiss by Elin Wyn 
Liked this well enough though it ended suddenly. I was surprised that no one in his community came to look for him, and they took months (I assume since she learned his language and they tanned leather to make clothes) to figure out a way off the “island.” Their encounter with alien tech didn’t turn into anything.

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Activism Personal Growth Political Commentary

Read Rest is Resistance

Read Rest Is Resistance

Far too many of us have claimed productivity as the cornerstone of success. Brainwashed by capitalism, we subject our bodies and minds to work at an unrealistic, damaging, and machine‑level pace of work –– feeding into the same engine that enslaved millions into brutal labor for its virtuous benefit. Our worth does not reside in how much we produce, especially for a system that exploits and dehumanizes us. Rest, in its simplest form, becomes an act of resistance and a reclaiming of power because it disrupts and pushes back against capitalism and white supremacy.

From the founder and creator of The Nap Ministry, Rest Is Resistance is a battle cry, a guidebook, a map for a movement, and a field guide for the weary and hopeful. It is rooted in spiritual energy and centered in Black liberation, womanism, somatics, and Afrofuturism. With captivating storytelling and practical advice, all delivered in Hersey’s lyrical voice and informed by her deep experience in theology, activism, and performance art, Rest Is Resistance is a call to action and manifesto for those who are sleep deprived, searching for justice, and longing to be liberated from the oppressive grip of Grind Culture.

As someone who’s experienced burnout and still struggles with letting go of perfectionism and productivity, I was on board with a lot of this.

It’s interesting to think of rest as inherently valuable, not valuable by virtue of letting us feel rested — as an activity in itself, unnecessary to be justified by the outcome we produce from it. I fall into this thinking trap sometimes, of framing my breaks in terms of making me more effective and productive rather than part of life and a right to which I’m entitled.

Much of the book is repetitive — but that is intentional, as she frames herself the Nap Minister and approaches the book as a secular (theoretically) sermon, drawing on oral culture’s use of repetition to drive points home emotionally.

Her approach is rooted in religious beliefs and the text is supposedly secular, but steeped in spiritual language that can be a lot to wade through if you aren’t spiritual. She is dismissive of anyone who is not spiritual, claiming that capitalism and grind culture have separated us from our innate spirituality 🙄 We cannot rest because we are not spiritual. Thanks for the judgment lady. I almost quit at 75% because I don’t feel the need to be insulted but ultimately pushed through.

Unfortunately, she relied on spirituality as her justification for why humans deserve rest: because they are divine and their existence is a miracle 🙄 This feels like an oversight and missed opportunity to dig into this more. Relying on unexplained claims that depend on specific spiritual beliefs is not very convincing. Her explanation of the Dream Space also needed more, in my opinion.

She also claims it is necessary to “detox” from technology completely to be able to rest. I understand her stance on social media being an expression of Grind Culture, but I feel demanding a complete removal of technology is dismissive of those for whom technology is a connector of community — disabled people, anyone living in an area where they are out of place ideologically, anyone who does not have the opportunity to form local in-person community.

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Romance Science Fiction

Read Galileo’s Holiday

Read Galileo’s Holiday

ce miner Riley works alone in the depths of space, and that’s the way she likes it. She’s proud of her independence, and when her ship gets destroyed by raiders on the icy surface of Galileo, she’s not sure she wants to rely on rakish trader Leo and the kindness of a band of settlers to survive.Despite her attempts to keep her distance, it’s not long before Riley warms to the family atmosphere of the settlers’ station. As Galileo’s Holiday approaches and she develops feelings for the handsome, charming Leo, she questions whether she really wants to remain alone.But Leo is hiding cargo the raiders want, and when they come back for it, everyone on the small station is in danger. Riley will risk anything to protect her new friends-because if the raiders succeed, the choice between Leo and a life alone won’t be Riley’s to make.

I liked it but wish the relationship had been fleshed out much more, especially transition from dislike to like — I wanted to see more of a reason that she softened on him and they got together.

(Read from the anthology A Galactic Holiday)

(23,000 words)

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Romance

Read Witch Please

Read Witch Please (Fix-It Witches, #1)

Danica Waterhouse is a fully modern witch—daughter, granddaughter, cousin, and co-owner of the Fix-It Witches, a magical tech repair shop. After a messy breakup that included way too much family “feedback,” Danica made a pact with her cousin: they’ll keep their hearts protected and have fun, without involving any of the overly opinionated Waterhouse matriarchs. Danica is more than a little exhausted navigating a long-standing family feud where Gram thinks the only good mundane is a dead one and Danica’s mother weaves floral crowns for anyone who crosses her path.

Three blocks down from the Fix-It Witches, Titus Winnaker, owner of Sugar Daddy’s bakery, has family trouble of his own. After a tragic loss, all he’s got left is his sister, the bakery, and a lifetime of terrible luck in love. Sure, business is sweet, but he can’t seem to shake the romantic curse that’s left him past thirty and still a virgin. He’s decided he’s doomed to be forever alone.

Until he meets Danica Waterhouse. The sparks are instant, their attraction irresistible. For him, she’s the one. To her, he’s a firebomb thrown in the middle of a family war. Can a modern witch find love with an old-fashioned mundane who refuses to settle for anything less than forever?

I liked the idea of this but not what it turned out to be.

The second half of the story took some weird plot twists that didn’t really match with the first half, or make sense for the characters. The plot also relied on the heroine of this story and the next book to not have brains and take an extremely biased person’s word on something that has life-changing implications for them.

Poor Danica, she’s being manipulated on all sides! Her cousin/roommate/business partner treats her terribly, guilt tripping her and trying to hold her back from happiness due to her own fears. Her grandmother is a manipulative bitch who tries to control Danica for basically racist reasons. Neither of the two bad relationships gets resolved, nor are the impacts to Danica’s thinking addressed. She blames and second-guesses herself throughout the story.

The world building is a little too sloppy to hold up to inspection, or the sniff test. The magic system, per the ending, has horrrrrrible ramifications that are completely ignored by everyone in the story, including the heroine. I become more sympathetic to the witch hunters. Speaking of, for people who are theoretically living in hiding, the witches don’t seem to make any effort at all to conceal their magic.

There was something that bothered me about how sex was treated in this. Maybe that the virgin hero is really good at everything in bed instantly, and also down for kink almost immediately?

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Health

Higher risk

Bookmarked Underlying Medical Conditions at Higher Risk of Severe Disease (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention)

An updated list of high-risk underlying conditions, based on what has been reported in the literature as of October 7, 2021 is provided below. The conditions are grouped by the level of evidence, with the highest level at the top.

Oh goodie! At least this supports my need for accommodations 🙃

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Weeknotes

Weeknotes: May 25-31, 2024

cat on window shelf overlooking neighbor's yard
we are making her sit up on her new shelf while we eat dinner instead of continuously kicking her off the table 🦾 (look at this heinously ugly rent-a-fence my neighbor added — I’m glad the fig is leafing out to cover part of it up!)

My husband’s out of town, which happens infrequently enough it messes up my routine. Knowing he’d be gone, combined with a long weekend and a break in my projects, I decided to blitz on my book like I’ve been thinking about.

My friend encouraged me to focus on finding the fastest path to done, so I have streamlined out multiple subplots. With the material I salvaged from the 150k word sprawling draft, it’s currently about 55k and I’m thinking it’ll come in around 75-80k — honestly a good fit for the sci-fi romance genre. *rolls up sleeves* What can I get done this weekend?

Win of the week: getting a bunch done on the book after not touching it for three months since surgery

Looking forward to: my husband getting home from his trip

Stuff I did:

  • 16.5 hours writing — maybe that sounds lame for a “blitz” but dude I am zonked
  • 8 hours consulting — finally started working on the new project! did some research and had our kickoff meeting
  • updated my LinkedIn profile — realized I had only updated it once since I left my last job two years ago and it would probably be helpful for potential clients if I said what the heck I do 😅 (I also, maybe foolishly, put my email address in plaintext in my profile — but honestly it’s on my website anyway and I’d rather people be able to contact me *not* through LinkedIn messaging — I’m in a niche enough field I’ve never had to worry about recruiters bugging me)
  • created a simple diagram of my design process to include in future proposals
  • went to Bonus Homebrew Website Club on writing
  • walked with my friend — we explored a new little path I’d spotted while driving
  • one virtual appointment
  • started off the long weekend with a hearty brunch of breakfast potatoes and Ottolenghi’s spinach-leek-eggs
  • baked vanilla cake with chocolate frosting from Snacking Cakes
  • baked whole wheat yogurt biscuits from a recipe I’d saved years back — meh 🤷‍♀️
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Personal Growth

Watched Ed Yong’s XOXO talk

Watched Ed Yong, Journalist/Author – XOXO Festival (2024) from YouTube

Avid birder and Pulitzer-winning science journalist Ed Yong built a devoted audience for his deeply empathetic coverage of the pandemic for The Atlantic, while his two New York Times bestsellers, I Contain Multitudes and An Immense World, shared his curiosity about life on Earth at all scales.

Ed Yong is a thoughtful guy — as he says at the end, his pillars are empathy, curiosity, and kindness.