I was thinking of how to answer the prompt in a recent post about what things we treasure. I tried answering it and I found a good pattern, and thought that might be helpful to some of you.
The prompt was to think about “Non negotiable, unalterable terms”. These are things–treasures–which we resolve to protect with violent force if necessary. These are things offenses against which we will not tolerate in any company. The benefit of thinking about this is that we create a “confidence circle” within which we can operate comfortably and confidently knowing that we are doing a good and right thing, and we will not let anyone or anything disturb our peace about that. If someone disturbs our peace about our non negotiable, unalterable terms, then something is wrong with them and not us.
The rules I set for myself when thinking about this was that I would start from the inside out: What is the biggest treasure and most fundamental term, which supports all other treasures above it, and without which none of those treasures matter, and against which all other treasures must be capable of transgressing. And once the foundation is established, work my way up.
The pattern that developed was something like this.
First Level: God – God is the root of everything, so sensibly ought to be the first and most fundamental. My God, my faith, my Church, my devotions all fall under this category. No offenses against God ought to be tolerated; and nothing else I have matters without God.
Second Level: People – My life, [and] families fall under this level. They are treasures in their own right, but also capable of transgressing against the first level, which is God. We ought to educate ourselves, those people close to us, so that they do not transgress against God; we ought to resolve to protect these people with violent force if they face determined offense; nothing else we have matters if we do not have these people in our lives.
Third Level: Life & Livelihood – These are the things we do in our lives that support and enhance every preceding level. Our jobs, our education, our recreation and hobbies, I also include our possessions and belongings here. I would not accept a job if it required me to sacrifice anything on the preceding levels; I would not engage in a recreation if it offended against any of the preceding levels; I would not purchase a good for my use or my home if it was contrary to the previous levels. Yet, once I have properly aligned my life & livelihood, anything that transgresses against these things I would reject with violent force if necessary. No one may take my possessions or limit my recreations unjustly.
Fourth Level: Beliefs and Ideals – These are the truths we hold dear. You may be surprised it is this far out from the center, but rather than being fundamental, it serves as a protective shield. We don’t hold beliefs that transgress below, neither do we allow higher levels to transgress against our beliefs and ideals. Think of it this way: Once God is foundation, and the people are in place around us, and once the people around us are taken care of, then our beliefs will solidify. The beliefs and ideals serve as the foundation for everything beyond, which is not much.
Fifth Level: Community – These are the friends and relations who are in our lives but not essentially so. They enrich our lives but I would not defend them with the same vigor that I would defend […]. Yet–as my community, I would defend them against anything that sits at a higher level.
Beyond – Anything higher than this fifth level falls under the category of Enemies, Strangers, or Foreigners–which are words I use to signify people we don’t like, people we don’t know, and people we don’t understand, respectively. Each of these three categories can transgress against our community, and we ought to defend and protect our community vigorously, and seek to support them. Enemies we ought to keep at arms length, strangers we ought to employ reasonable suspicion, foreigners we ought to make reasonable pains to make them understood.
Now, in each of these levels there are specific items which are worth listing. My writing endeavors fall under the third level: they are recreations I enjoy which help make me whole, yet which ought not offend against any of the people closest to me, nor God. This is not to say my writing can be offensive against my beliefs and ideals and my community, but rather that if I am compliant with the preceding levels then I will have no difficulty remaining consistent with the succeeding levels.
Maybe this is all very obvious to you already, but it was a helpful exercise to me to think about, and I hope there is something valuable in all this for you, too.
AMDG
