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\n\n Well, me and my friend sort of made up, via tex messaging. I know lame right, but it worked. We are gonig to start haingin out again! Yay, but there are going to be some "Conditions" that he set up, but don't worry, i didn't just role over and took all of his requests like i was crawling back to him, i made some conditions of my own. His first condition that i actualy allowed, and will share with you, was that i couldn't "touch" him anymore. I understood that, but it's not like a actualy "touched" him befor eather, not inaproprietly anyway, but that was something i was willing to give up. Then one of his requests was that i had to prommis to let him help me be learn how to be straight! How dare he!
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\n\n I said. "Insert person's name here" how dare you! To even suggest that you would try to change me, simply to make yourself feel more comfortable around me, is unbearably selfish.
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\n\n So he just threw that off of the table. I knew i could make my own demands, becasue he knows how much he hert me when he did this to me, and he also wanted me back as much as i wanted him. So i made him swear he wouldn't call anything "gay" when he is around me, he isn't alowd to get all wieard around me, and by that i mean he cant think that i am constantly cheking him out, and finoly he cant try to change me! He has to deal with who and what i fundomentoly am.
\n\n I think I'm making progress with him, i got some of my friend back, but some is better than none, and I'm taking it. Babby steps!
\n\n Thanks for all your words of support everyone, lets see how things go from here. Hope things turn out for the better.
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Although, by Jove, are you right. How dare anyone! *growls* The very idea.... sorry... I'm getting a little heated over this. It just pisses me off. How would that help?
Sorry, preaching to the choir, I know. I'll stop now before I get completely carried away.
I made the same request of not calling things "gay" around me to my sister and bro-in-law after I told (well... not really told, but whatever) them I was bi. I still have to remind my bro-in-law sometimes, though.
Something is better than nothing, even though it's not everything. Hopefully he gets more comfortable around you as time goes on.
Which leads me to something else I don't understand. Why do some people think that sexuality or sexual orientation completely changes a person? It's not like, "Hey, I came out, now I'm going to act completely differently and become a whole new person." Sexuality is much like eye colour or talent with music. It's a inborn trait that makes something different, but it doesn't define you're whole being.
Oops, preaching to the choir again. I need to stop that. I just get a little worked up, I suppose, and once I start, it's hard to start. If I had any sort of sense, I'd delete those parts, but I'm too lazy, and I like to text and comment as if I was talking for the most part. It gives a little more of me, so I'll leave it.
You're welcome for the earlier support, and I continue to wish you the best. *hugs* I hope things turn out for the better, too.
I didn't really do a twice over once i finished. I just sort of posted it.
Glad you agree with me on what mattered and stuff like that. And thanks again for your words of encouragement.
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One more thing, i like the way you post coments, it's sort of the way i do.
PS.
I'm a little lazy too ;3
As for the "gay" statement, my brother uses that word a lot around me, but he uses it less often now because he knows who I am. I personally get irritated when people use gay as a demanor to mean stuff like stupid or lame.
But I am very lucky compared to you that my best friend (who is also straight) is understandable about my choices and accepts me for who I am.
As a conclusion statement, I am glad you found hope in the relationship with your friend and I wish the best of luck that your friendship will last long