If No Peace, then War!

When all that is good, beautiful, and true is desecrated, utter destruction is imminent.

Readership: All; Men;
Theme: Validation; Awareness and Introspection;
Length:
 700 words
Reading Time: 4 minutes

The Martial Disposition of Peacemakers

Peacemakers are men who are peaceful to the very snuff of their souls. Their very presence has a calming effect on others, able to end an argument with mere eye contact. Ironically, this may be because Peacemakers are some of the most violent, warmongering, ZFG individuals among all mankind. Ironic, but true.

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The Serenity of Worship

Men in the West don’t have an authentic style of worship that enables them to enter into the presence of God.

Readership: All; Men;
Theme: Validation; Awareness and Introspection;
Note: Based on an email discussion with Tubal Cain on 2025/6/10.
Length:
 1,300 words
Reading Time: 7 minutes

A Time and Place for Worship

The expectations for us as men are tremendous.  They are all-consuming.  They are unbelievable.  They come in the form of people to see, places to be, things to do, and busy schedules.  They are incessant demands on your time and energy. They are notifications on your phone at all hours of the day and all hours of the night.  And it never stops.

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Archetypal Mythos: Themes

Mythos is built around a set of assumptions about what is important, relevant, fitting, and proper, AKA themes.

Readership: All;
Theme: Awareness and Introspection
Length: 1,300 words
Reading Time: 7 minutes

What is a Theme?

The most popularly known and long-enduring stories and narratives are built around an Archetypal Mythos.  Further, the Mythos is founded on a set of assumptions about what is important, relevant, fitting, and proper, and this Frame paradigm is generally referred to as a theme.

A literary theme is the central, universal idea, message, or underlying meaning that a story explores, providing the work with depth, purpose, and explanations as to why things are as they are. Common themes focus on the deeper meanings about relationships, life, humanity, or society that the story intends to explain or magnify. Explicitly, themes usually take the form of living conditions, social structures, moral and ethical ontologies, and interactive relationships between archetypal characters. Themes are often expressed implicitly through the characters’ actions, motivations, the plot, or the setting, and can be broad (like “love” or “death”) or more specific, such as the consequences of unchecked ambition.

Here, I’ll provide a brief descriptive list of the most common themes as seen through a cultural / historical lens, and assess what we are currently missing.

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Limitations

Where is the boundary of faith and reality?

Readership: All, especially Christians
Theme: Community / Metacognitions / Awareness and Introspection
Length: 2,250 words
Reading Time: 12 minutes

Intro

For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the ability to carry it out.

Romans 7:18b (ESV)

Now, we can only see reality as if looking at an obscure reflection in a dark mirror.

Paraphrase of 1 Corinthians 13:12a
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Why is Eastern Orthodoxy more attractive to Men than Protestantism?

Understanding the reasons for the apocalyptic attrition from Evangelicalism.

Readership: All
Theme: Validation; Awareness and Introspection;
Author’s Note: The contents of this essay were submitted through several emails from Tubal Cain on 2025/9/2-4.  Compiled and edited by Jack.
Length: 2,000 words
Reading Time: 10 minutes

Foreword from Jack

Apparently, some readers are still not seeing why young American men are drawn to Eastern Orthodoxy.  This post will spell it out in greater detail.

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The Age Old Question of Authority

The church, faith, scripture, tradition… To which shall we ascribe all our intellectual fealty?

Readership: All, especially Christians
Theme: Community / Free Speech / Metacognitions / Sectarianism / Awareness and Introspection
Length: 900 words
Reading Time: 5 minutes

What to Believe?

John the Fool wrote,

“My concern is that the Bible is mainly read and understood from a culture / worldview that is foreign to the text and therefore distorts it. Reason is assumed to be arbiter of truth even though Paul says that the things of God are spiritually discerned (1 Corinthians 2:14).

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Nuances of the Eternal

“Forever and Ever” is more than an infinite span of time.

Readership: All
Theme: Awareness and Introspection
Length: 1,000 words
Reading Time: 5 minutes

Intro

In Fate vs Self-Awareness (2025/8/27), I wrote,

“a covenant is an eternal bond that is stronger than bad choices.”

Sharkly responded,

“If we’re talking about marriage, it is not eternal, as Jesus explained to the Sadducees. Marriage is a one-flesh covenant that is permanently parted by death. When churchian simps talk about foolishness like being “soulmates”, they are just deluding themselves and anybody who listens to them.”

I agree with Sharkly’s points.  The first refers to Jesus’ description of marriage in Matthew 22:23-33, Mark 12:18-27, and Luke 20:27-40.  Oscar dissected Sharkly’s second point in The Soul Mate Myth (2021/2/3).

Our disagreement lies in my own nuanced concepts of the words ‘eternal’ and ‘soul’.  Here, I’ll go over this to clear up any confusion this has created among readers.

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Authority in Suffering

Suffering imparts a unique contextual authority.

Readership: All; Men;
Theme: Awareness and Introspection
Length: 1,100 words
Reading Time: 6 minutes

Intro

A previous post, Faith and Authority (2025/8/29), explained my understanding of Authority as it relates to Faith. In summary, various expressions of Faith are built on an Authority of some type and cannot very well exist without it.

Faith and Authority can also be obtained through suffering.

This post will examine a couple of relevant issues related to this.

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Addressing Criticisms of Faith and Authority

Faith is difficult without an authority in place.

Readership: All; Men;
Theme: Awareness and Introspection
Length: 850 words
Reading Time: 5 minutes

Intro

A few readers have mentioned that I emphasize authority too heavily. Maybe so, but I believe this is what is missing in today’s culture, so it needs to be emphasized. If you’re the type of man who already has a firm grasp of authority over his life, then maybe these posts are not for you.

The previous post, Faith and Authority (2025/8/29), explained my understanding of Authority as it relates to Faith. In a nutshell, Faith and Authority go hand in hand. You can’t have one without the other.

This post addresses specific criticisms related to this topic.

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Faith and Authority

Faith is an expression of a man’s trust in an authority — either Worldly or Heavenly.

Readership: All; Men;
Theme: Awareness and Introspection
Length: 1,600 words
Reading Time: 8 minutes

Intro

I have received some criticism, both online and through private email correspondence, that I have placed too much emphasis on authority and not enough on faith and/or scripture.

In this essay, I’ll explain my stance on this in very simple terms, maybe too simple, but this is intended to help readers latch on to the larger, metaphysical concept.

The next post will address some specific criticisms.

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