[11] How to Enjoy the Winter

I have figured out how to enjoy the morose and sombre winter, folks.

You have to just not live in a city.

During the November challenge last year, I wrote this post about winter being depressing, and as I write now with the view of the beautiful countryside in front of me, I feel the truth of winter joy. I feel like I love the cold air, I love when it’s cloudy and the clouds drape themselves over the distant hills like soft fluffy scarves. I love the wind so violent and wild, pummelling trees so they always turn inland. I love the sea, smashing wildly against the edge of the wall of an inland bay, the spray sailing high above my head.

On the Isle, I have taken my children out in the biting cold every single day. Rain, wind, storm, sunshine, snow. They have loved it, of course. I have never known my children to complain about being outdoors.

Makes me more determined to get out in nature everyday. Even when I am back home, and nature is not as wild and beautiful as it is on this Isle on the Irish sea. Just have to drag myself and do it!

Being in the countryside in the winter makes me feel the depth of the beauty described by the Victorian authors who used weather and nature as the emotional setting driving their stories.

29. Light in the Dark

On driving home from an appointment this wintry night, when frost from the morning still adorned every blade of grass and leaf, when houses breathed their heated breaths into the air from pipes protruding out their sides, when people stood like icicles at bus stops… I saw the warmest sight.

I saw on the canal a houseboat. It nestled on the furthest bank, and its little windows, sunken to a level below the walking knee, were alight. Little curtains pulled aside to reveal the warm glow of a compact living space. Much like one would see in an illustrated painting in a cosy children’s book.

I saw pictures on the walls, I saw a table adorned with candles ready for an evening meal. I saw fairy lights along the ceiling, and caught sight of a stripy jumper and a loaf of bread tucked under a stripy arm.

All in the matter of moments as my car trundled on by.

And I thought, as I traversed the icy, winding roads of the Cheshire countryside, that winter, for all its harsh dreariness, is not so bad after all.

Why, all the better to appreciate the summer with.

And the beautiful winter moon, gleaming in the dark, glistening sky.

And the magnificent sunsets, enriched only more for how fleeting they are, unlike the long drawn out goodbyes of summer ones.

It lifted my spirits a little, seeing that wink of cosiness in a houseboat on a frosty winter night.

It’s not so bad after all. The change in season is inevitable, essential.

Image Credit: The Narrowboat Gallery on Etsy