Income and outgo

  • We got a truly insane credit card bill.  It had travel– Montreal and Christmas, a new iPhone, and $6K for insurance.  Lots of other stuff too.  I think the biggest one-month bill we’ve ever gotten and I suspect they’ll raise our credit limit one of these months because of it.
  • DC2’s therapist (for anxiety) no longer takes our insurance so we’re paying out of pocket for that.  Currently we have a $50 discount so it’s $200/week, but it will be going up to $250/week.  That’s like $10K/year, give or take.  Worth it though– DC2 has made huge strides and it is really difficult to find a good child therapist, especially one who isn’t an ultra-Christian/homophobe etc.
  • We spend a LOT.
  • I took on an additional administrative role that actually comes with a month of salary so I was feeling super flush and I’ve been feeling like we ought to be spending more and not worrying about money.  Hence the Montreal trip that we just did without really thinking about it (unlike all previous trips that have been combined with work travel or planned out ages in advance), and DH getting a new iPhone even though his was fine other than not having enough storage (DC1 is enjoying it and I’m enjoying DC1’s battery not always being dead).  Also a ton of giving money, mostly to donors choose, but some to political causes and other charities.
  • I try to live on DH’s take-home pay (minus things that come directly out of my paycheck like health insurance, or things that come out of savings like college tuition and property taxes) but the checking account was getting a little anemic so I moved $10K from savings (where my take-home ends up) to checking (where DH’s take-home goes).  It has been a while since I have done that.
  • We’re still ok on the things that my paycheck goes towards– DC1’s 529 is full, DC2’s is filling up at the rate of the gift tax exclusion per year, Roth IRAs get filled, taxes that get paid by check get paid.  Because DC1’s 529 is full, there will be money to go to taxable investments sometime in 2026.  It is astonishing how much of our net worth is locked up in retirement accounts compared to taxable investments, though we do have Roth IRAs and 457s that could be tapped in early retirement if needed without doing anything fancy.
  • It turns out when you decide to spend more and start spending more… more money gets spent.  Like, you don’t magically spend less in other areas.  And when the additional spending is because savings is getting more in it, but checking isn’t, well, of course money is going to need to get moved from savings to checking.
  • DC1 has gone through two laptops in three years of college and we’re not buying a third yet even though the second is literally barely held together (epoxy didn’t completely fix the most recent problem).  I feel like that’s a lot.  Probably zie will get a new one at Christmas but it may not be top of the line.  But also we need to think about getting DC1 a car… it will depend on if zie ends up going someplace with public transportation for graduate school vs. gets a job someplace where a car would be useful/necessary.
  • After two years of no raises (last raise in 2024), DH has gotten a 10% raise.  Playing with the CPI calculator, this looks like it beats inflation!  Though that’s ignoring that he didn’t get any raise last year and thus did not get any inflation adjustment to his paychecks last year.  I’m too lazy to figure out a break-even point.
  • That last bullet I think cancels out all the background worry from the previous bullets.  (Except maybe potentially buying a reliable car for DC1… those are not cheap!  But we need to figure out what zie is going to do after college before fully earmarking that.)  I still feel guilty about #privilege while at the same time bag lady syndrome wanting to have more money for more safety.  I don’t think the guilt cancels out the obnoxiousness of these posts.  But also I love having money so much.  It’s such a relief to just be able to do things.  We need a better safety net and more equitable investments for a better future for the next generation.

Happy 4th of July!

No links this week.  Stay safe and be woke!

Ask the Grumpies: About that iphone as birth control paper

DP asks:

Have you seen the paper saying that iPhones are responsible for fertility decline?  I recently saw Courtney Milan tearing apart an economics paper by Meyers and Hooper.  What do you think about the paper?

Disclaimer:  One of the authors is a friend of mine who I think does really solid work. I’m also a huge fangirl of Courtney Milan and one of my big accomplishments in life was winning an auction that allowed me to name a character in one of her books.  She also sent me a washi tape.  (I don’t like the way Courtney Milan is slagging off Caitlin Myers as some kind of natalist when Caitlin Myers almost single handedly organized an enormous Amicus brief summarizing all of the credible research on the positive effects of abortion availability and signed by multiple Nobel prize winners and other experts for Dobbs v. Jackson Women’s Health Organization that the Supreme Court justices ignored.  I want to shout, “You’re on the same side!” but not enough to get a BlueSky account.)

The paper in question is this one.  It is still a working paper– has not been published, but it did get a shout-out from the NBER LinkedIn feed which it doesn’t do for all of their working papers.

Courtney Milan comments on an NPR story and pulls out one of the sets of graphs from the paper in this thread here.

As economists know, correlation is not causation, and you cannot just look at post-trends after a change.  Courtney Milan is 100% correct that that would be a really bad research design.

What Myers and Hooper do is look at the location of AT&T stores between 2007 and 2011 because the iPhone was only sold on AT&T during this time period.  Other markets instead had Verizon or Sprint, which offered service, but did not offer iPhone service.

It is true that markets with AT&T are potentially different than markets with Verizon or Sprint.  Thus, if you just measured the comparison of fertility AT&T after the iPhone to Verizon/Sprint after the iPhone, you would get the true effect plus some sort of market bias.

It is also true that fertility before the iPhone would be different than fertility after the iPhone for non-iPhone related reasons.  If you just measured fertility differences post the iPhone you would be getting the true effect of the iPhone plus time bias.

The idea is that Verizon/Sprint markets will have the same time bias for fertility.  Or that market bias will be the same in the before iPhone period as the after iPhone period.  If that is true, then you can use a method called “Difference-in-Differences” to basically use the Verizon/Sprint market as a control for the AT&T market, and the before period as a control for the after period.

Fertility_AT&T_after – Fertility_AT&T_after = change in AT&T fertility = true effect + time bias

Fertility_Sprint/Verizon_after – Fertility_Sprint/Verizon_after = change in Sprint fertility = time bias

Then you subtract (change in AT&T fertility) – (change in Sprint fertility) to get the true effect.  This is the second difference where you subtract out the time bias.

Now a lot of things have to be true for this to give you the actual true effect– remember those assumptions above?  You have to make sure that the trends in those Sprint/Verizon markets don’t have different trends in the pre-period, because then you’re not actually measuring just time bias.  You have to make sure nothing else is happening the exact time the iPhone is introduced that would affect fertility differentially in AT&T markets vs. only Sprint/Verizon markets (like, those aren’t the places where they’re putting in new Planned Parenthoods or something, or AT&T stores are also the only places that sell specific gaming systems or are handing out free condoms… things like that)– A big concern here might be that counties with AT&T are differentially affected by the great recession compared to those without AT&T.  You also may want to make sure that you’re not including new AT&T stores that sprang up because of the iPhone, because those were potentially selected into markets in a way that might be related to fertility or other iPhone demographics (you might then instrument actual stores with original stores).

Here’s Caitlin Myers’ explanation of the paper in question from LinkedIn.

Looking at the paper more carefully– they’re not quite doing a straight-up DID.  Instead they’re doing a synthetic DID event study.  I don’t like these as much as doing a regular DID and then directly testing the assumptions.  Generally when someone is doing Synthetic DID it’s because one or more of the assumptions were violated (but sometimes people do it just to get a more precise estimate since it gets rid of the difference in the pre-period, or because either the treatment or the control group is small).  So this method is one of the many methods that matches and/or weights on observables in the pre-period (gross oversimplification– this isn’t technically propensity score or coarsened exact matching… but…) to get things to line up and then kind of hopes that the unobservables, the true omitted variables, will follow.  They’re sort of “in” right now, and have been for like the past 10 years give or take.  I don’t know that it’s better than doing coarsened exact matching and it’s possibly better than propensity score matching (because you throw out less stuff), but for whatever reason people trust it more (maybe because Alberto Abadie has been pushing it).

In terms of the sniff test– the authors find that about a third of the drop in fertility during this time period is from smart phones.  It still seems a bit large to me because we’re talking about early smart phone roll out and the biggest effects that they’re finding are on 15-19 year olds, and from other work I know that the biggest recent fertility drops overall are from the 15-19 group– and I just can’t think that this expensive phone is being taken up by a lot of teenagers, particularly the lower income teens who are seeing the biggest drops.  There wasn’t a robust used iPhone market yet and iPhones were pricey.  Heck, I didn’t get a smart phone until like 2015.  It might make sense for the older groups who have more disposable income, but they’re not really seeing big drops for those groups.  Or maybe the explanation is that parents are lending their kids their phones?

That said, the fact that they don’t see fertility changes for groups that shouldn’t be affected is good.  That they show increases in porn watching and decreases in people spending time with each other, both of which could decrease fertility, is good for their story. The fact they don’t see effects with Verizon only (ignoring other groups) is good.  The fact that they do actually see some effects with Sprint (in Appendix B 6) is less good.  The standard errors are larger but the patterns look the same.  I’m not clear on what the control is here or how correlated Sprint coverage is with AT&T coverage.

So.. bottom line… I haven’t seen the paper presented and it isn’t published yet.  They are aware of the simple correlation is not causation criticisms and they’re using a technique that is currently in vogue that is based on a solid technique but maybe isn’t as solid as we’d like it to be.  Personally I’ve thrown away projects rather than using synthetic DID.  I do think Courtney Milan’s general criticism is true, but not with respect to this paper.  They aren’t just looking at the post-period; they are using the pre-period as a control.  I’m not sure I’m convinced that the necessary assumptions hold, but I’m not unconvinced either.  There are things that look very reassuring (the mechanism questions, some of the placebo work and robustness checks), but there are some that look a little off.  For the things that are a little off my thought is that it’s likely that there is really an effect, but maybe it’s not quite as large as it seems, or the heterogeneity magnitudes are off.

Most of Grumpy Nation is probably in the “not affected” age group, but do you think smart phone use could affect youth fertility?

Contemplating POV from one’s own home

DC2 has been learning a lot more about hir friends’ home lives, and while, to our knowledge, none of them are CPS-level abusive (this is in contrast to at least one of DC1’s friends back in high school), finding out about them has been making DC2 appreciate hir homelife more.

Now some of this is home lives that clearly are sub-optimal.  DC2 seems to collect a lot of LGBT friends who have homophobic parents, and we are definitely not that.  Also the more I learn about the Mormon church, the less I like it (this is one of those, love all the Mormons I personally know, hate their bigoted misogynistic religion… even if BYU does send us very strong graduate students).*

But more of it is just that they do things differently.  They don’t have a dishwasher, so kids have to wash dishes by hand, but each kid who can drive has a car.  They have a mom who is more like a friend than an authority figure.  They eat the same thing every week (Taco Tuesday!)  They’re forced to do sports or to drive to the city to do prep school every Saturday.  We don’t have the ability to have a third car because we have a two car garage and a one-car driveway and our HOA doesn’t allow on-street parking at night; having a third car even visit is kind of a nightmare.  I guess we’re still authority figures.  We have possibly more variety with cooking than is optimal (every time we have spaghetti or chili or tacos we wonder why we don’t do it more often!)  And we’re too lazy for sports or prep school and DC2 is too busy for sports and neither kid really needed/needs prep school– but we have strong-armed our kids into Math circle on Saturdays and music lessons etc… (we get buy-in but not always enthusiastic buy-in).

And I think back to when I was in high school and how weird other family’s patterns seemed.  And I knew my home life was messed up because I saw Family Ties and (I am sad to say The Cosby Show) and thought they were examples of how good parents behaved and how probably most people’s parents who weren’t verbally abusive were.  And because I knew there were things I was not supposed to tell other people about because we didn’t want Child Protective Services called.  And yet, I still thought various things about how I lived were normal, superior even, but in reality they were just different and other people’s patterns were just different too.

What you know seems normal, even when logically it isn’t at all.  Or logically there isn’t a normal, but a whole range of possibilities.  And it takes a long time and some distance to see that.

What were some things you thought were normal growing up that other people thought were weird, or that you thought were weird but turned out to be normal?

*For some reason DC1 is on a Discord for transgender students at BYU and I just cannot with the cognitive dissonance or how hard their lives are.  I also went to college with a guy whose parents refused to pay for college or fill out financial aid when he refused to go to BYU– hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt for no reason.  And since getting to high school, the Mormon moms of opposite-sex-to-DC2 kids who used to just seem like nice people have gotten a little creepy.  DC2 thinks I shouldn’t feel guilty about not liking the Mormon church and points out that I was raised Catholic and feel the same way (I would argue a very similar way, but not quite the same) about Catholics.  I definitely have cognitive dissonance about believing that I should support religious freedom and live-and-let-live and absolutely hating cult-like religions that hurt people and disown people for normal healthy things.  I guess it still boils down to and it hurts no one do what you will, and the Mormon church definitely hurts innocent people.  I apologize to any Mormon readers who have decided to stop following.  It does still seem to be a healthier religion than Jehovah’s Witnesses?

DH bought a new iPhone

DH’s current iPhone is out of storage space because he takes pictures and videos of the kids and cats and also plays phone games.

DC1’s phone battery keeps running out of charge even though we got it replaced prior to giving hir this phone (which used to be my old phone).  For a long time zie said zie didn’t want a replacement, but apparently has been mostly keeping it in hir dorm room this year because it’s always out of batteries, which has caused a few problems.  So… zie indicated that zie might be ok with a replacement.  I guess when zie gets home I’ll check on the battery to see if replacing it again would be worthwhile.

(DC2’s phone is crunched because we gave hir a soft case instead of a hard case initially but zie refuses to let us replace it at ALL.  Technically it is hir turn for a replacement, but if DC1 weren’t having problems, DH probably would have delayed getting a new phone even with his storage space problems.)

DH was going to get an iPhone 17 with 512GB for $1000, but I vetoed that and said no, if you’re running out of space now you’ll run out of space with 512GB as well.  So zie has gotten the 17-Pro with 1TB for $1500.  (He was won over with the argument that $500 these days is just two grocery store trips and we have that in petty cash.)  I see now that I’m looking that zie could have gotten a Pro Max with 2TB for $2000, but that’s also a physically bigger phone and probably not actually needed.  With tax, $1,623.

DH also got a new case and new screen protectors.  Since we’re not longer using Amazon, zie ordered from a company called Smartish directly (they don’t know we exit– not an affiliate link).  $32 screen protectors, $49 for a new case (he uploaded his own design to smartish, which is not an affiliate link, but does explain the price).

Practically there’s not much difference between the new phone than the old phone other than 1. the increased memory and 2. a much better camera (particularly for zooming in!)

I have an iPhone 15, so I guess I’m next in line for a new iPhone but unless DC2 wants to replace hirs, I don’t really see needing a new one.  Apparently I’m using iCloud storage and have 40GB left in that and 173GB remaining on my phone’s harddrive.  I don’t really do much on my phone other than text and surf the internet and take the occasional cute picture.

How often do you replace your phones?  What is the trigger for new technology purchases?

Link love

This is a huge travesty of justice– people protesting an ICE facility in TX given 30-100 years, even people who weren’t there!  The guy with the 100 year sentence shot someone (who survived), and that 100 year sentence is way more than the January 6th rioters who actually killed a police officer got before they were pardoned.

Here’s the gofundme for one of the guys who wasn’t there.  Below are some more funding requests for a few of the other people appealing.  I don’t know what is to be done about the judges– this looks like it was Federal Court.

✴️ DONATE ✴️DFW Support Committeewww.givesendgo.com/supportDFWprotestorsMaricela Ruedawww.gofundme.com/f/help-maricelas-family-while-she-fights-for-justiceDaniel "Des" Sanchez Estradawww.gofundme.com/f/get-artist-des-revol-an-immigration-attorneyJanette Goeringhttps://fundrazr.com/a2jpW0

DFW Support Committee (@dfwsupportcommitt.bsky.social) 2026-06-24T05:20:33.962Z

 

Ask the grumpies: Going from 2 children to 1 to 0 at home

rose asks:

Beyond food needs for your at home household what big changes have you seen re having one child at college and soon two? What are you seeing as potential positives of both being high school graduates? Do you have travel plans for that period? Or location changes for your selves? Are there sabbatical options that might open up? Would that interest you? Where would you like to consider (broadly not specifics!)

The food, as you note, is really the biggest.  It is hard to go from 2 teenagers to 1 teenager and then back up to 2 at breaks.

Our vacations have very little overlap with DC1 at college so even though we finally for the first time have money to take real vacations it’s always one of the children getting left out.  (DH can take DC1 but I have to stay home with DC2 because I can’t take off work and DC2 can’t take off school. Or DH, DC2 and I can go someplace but DC1 can’t.)  We have a few years left with DC2, but hir lengthy extra-curriculars schedule makes some things less predictable– if they do well in competitions then sometimes there are other competitions over holidays but we don’t know until it’s too late to make plans.

It was nice when DC1 had time and was driving– zie could drive DC2 to things.  But now when DC1 is in town, zie doesn’t have time to chauffeur.

We have a few years before DC2 heads out.  I imagine vacations will be even more difficult to plan then as DC1 will be out of college (no summer breaks) and DC2 will no longer have a schedule that largely mirrors mine.  It will probably also be quiet.  We will really miss knowing what is going on with their lives on a granular rather than more general basis.  I’m thinking we’ll have more time… I’ll have less driving to do.  We’ll be able to pick up and just do things on weekends and evenings if we want.  There will be a lot less scheduling things and trying to remember things for 3-4 people.  It will just be us.  We don’t really have travel plans, but I do have in my mind that we could have the occasional 3 day weekend in like San Diego or something.  I dunno.  In terms of faculty development leave, I have been thinking it might be nice to do one in Europe, which is something you can do with small children but can’t do with a high schooler.  I’m particularly interested in going to the country where I have second cousins and there’s a university group that does work that is similar to some of mine.  But I don’t know what will happen.

Empty nesters– what changed for you?

RBOC

  • For some reason I’ve been having trouble keeping up with posts this summer.  I’m not sure why.  I was doing ok until my first conference.
  • I’m not really sure where my time has been going.  I suspect Reddit.
  • I started out really strong– I had a bunch of short deadlines and new opportunities and we were cranking things through.  Then I hit the conference and one of my friends gave me an annoying talk about how I need to vacation more and work less which always makes me feel terrible (she thinks I work a lot more than I actually do– she’ll work long hours because things have piled up whereas I hate doing that and am not really mentally capable of it, so I’m more likely to keep my work within working hours and weekdays and I’ll take a day off or half a day off here and there instead of a two week vacation) and then makes me less productive during work.  I’m not sure why.  It’s not because I need a two week vacation though– I do not come back from those refreshed in any way shape or form.
  • Terrible things have been happening at work, but quietly.  The dean continues to take his revenge on our department, most recently giving our computer lab to another department and forcing our students to share with the other department he’s trying to destroy, which is on another floor.  The only woman in the dean’s suite has fled to head up a program in another state (same university, but one of their remote campuses).  He’s created more admin positions and nobody in our two departments is willing to even apply for them because he’s so horrific to work with.  He had a really unpleasant meeting with the department head of the other department he is trying to destroy and told him yes his faculty voted for him to have a second term but he would not hesitate to fire the DH if he did not stop questioning the dean’s decisions.  Because the dean’s word is law and he should not have to explain his decisions to anybody ranked lower than him.
  • The news did not pick up on the illegal thing that happened to my department.  My colleague who said he was going to FOIA conversations didn’t and they have likely been permanently deleted by now.  It sounds like it was a decision at the chancellor’s level that the dean took credit for.  So basically there’s no respite for us.  All we can do is wait.
  • Early retirement is starting to look very promising.  We’ll see what happens in the next three years while DC2 makes hir way through high school.  (Did I mention zie is still valedictorian after a year?  Though one of hir friends who hasn’t taken quite as high weighted classes yet but will eventually has moved to be #2 if said friend does AP Spanish.)
  • That said, I have been quietly checking things off my long-term to-do list as I start new projects.  I’ve been added to a lot of grant proposals.  I guess I’m at the point in my career where I’m a senior person who looks good on things so I don’t have to do much other than just be there.  I’m used to being on the other side where I’m writing the support letters instead of signing them.
  • AP Spanish V and the good orchestra conflicted this year so DC2 has to take a year off from Spanish.  I’m concerned that this will keep happening which means DC2 will need to take the bad orchestra one of the remaining years.  DC2 is taking AP Physics 1 in its place, which takes some of the pressure off of junior year which was overloaded because a course conflict last year forced DC2 to take PE as a freshman instead of a junior.  This will also prevent DC2’s course rank from going up because zie will be missing a 6.0 foreign language class.  (Class rank now has a complicated formula, but basically the new thing is to maximize the 6.0 classes you’re taking in specific categories which are averaged together, rather than before where each class counted and you were penalized for non-AP electives.)
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Monetary gifts from parents

DH’s parents have hit the age where they have to draw down from their defined contribution savings, which has essentially doubled their cash on hand compared to last year when they were just getting their defined benefit pensions + Social Security.

Combined with this, DH’s youngest sibling has been needing cash infusions because of various things.  But they’re very fair, so if they send something to one kid, it gets sent to all three kids.

A month or so ago they wanted to send us $500 and we were like do not bother, if you must, please donate it to a charity in our name (and after a few rounds of this we provided specific charity suggestions).  I think they didn’t want to do that but we also convinced them not to send it.

This month they sent to the group chat with the three kids that checks for $2000 were already in the mail, basically short circuiting any chance we had of saying anything about it.  They said it was an early inheritance.

Which makes sense– my parents have been giving my sister and her husband up to the gift tax each year in an effort to get their (state-level) inheritance tax down.  (While still forcing my mom to hang up laundry because my father “doesn’t believe” in dryers, and to hand wash dishes because their kitchen is “too small” for a dishwasher.  Which, a. it’s not, and b. it’s only been “too small” since the “dishwashers are less efficient” reason became false.  It’s not about the environment or money or space, it’s about control.  Which, if you’re not a long-time follower of the blog, is probably the main reason I’m estranged from my parents and disowned from any inheritance.  I don’t like being controlled.)  I don’t think DH’s family is in any danger of hitting the inheritance tax (or even the state estate tax), but you never know what a future legislature will bring.

It’s funny how 25 years ago we really could have used any extra cash.  It would have paid down some of DH’s unsubsidized student loans or provided a cushion or enabled us to eat meat from the grocery store.  I would have had a lot less stress.  But now, $2K doesn’t really change anything.  When you’re rich you just get richer.  When you’re low income it’s a slog to stay afloat.  If it had been this time last year, we probably would have sent it directly to DH’s relative who had the court case, but that’s all over now and I don’t think paying off a couple of thousand on their home equity loan would be that useful in the long run given previous experiences with them using the house for cash.

I have the money earmarked for plane tickets over Christmas– it costs about the same.  Maybe we’ll insist on renting a car this year so they don’t have to drive us to the airport.

Do your parents give you money?  If you’re a parent, how do you decide on monetary gifts for your children?

 

Link Love

Texas is forcing a required reading list for the State of Texas that includes the Bible every year, Margaret Thatcher’s eulogy for Ronald Reagan, and Ayn Rand. This is NOT OK.
Paired action: Texans: Call or email your SBOE member.

Trump administration quietly shifts $352m in federal funds for White House ballroomFunds meant for Secret Service were transferred to project president promised would be financed by private donationswww.theguardian.com/us-news/2026…

Lauren Ashley Davis (@laurenmeidasa.bsky.social) 2026-06-18T17:08:39.957Z

Paired action:  This 5calls.

Econ PhD students (or advisors), here’s suggestions for the job market.

Not of general interest discusses summer activities.

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