The music of Cold Case TV series

An old TV series my wife and I enjoy is “Cold Case” about a Philadelphia homicide team that reviews unsolved or cold cases. It ran for seven seasons starring Kathryn Morris, Danny Pino, John Finn, Jeremy Ratchford, Thom Barry and Tracie Thoms. The show would flip back and forth between the time the initial crime was committed and those who are investigating it in today’s time. The show does an excellent job of casting older actors to play off the younger people in the same role.

Yet, a key part of the show is the music which sets the period when the crime occurred. Per an AI search summary, “Cold Case is famous for featuring period-accurate music, often centered around a specific artist or year, with the theme song being “Nara” by E.S. Posthumus.

Popular songs featured across the series include “Have You Ever Seen The Rain” (Creedence Clearwater Revival), “Total Eclipse of the Heart” (Bonnie Tyler), “Owner Of A Lonely Heart” (Yes), and “Missing” (Everything But The Girl).

Iconic Songs by Era/Style

Classic Rock/Pop: “More Than a Feeling” (Boston), “Let’s Stay Together” (Al Green), “Faith” (George Michael), “True” (Spandau Ballet).

Alternative/90s: “When You’re Gone” (The Cranberries), “How’s It Going to Be” (Third Eye Blind), “She’s So High” (Tal Bachman).

Soul/Oldies: “I’m Gonna Love You Just A Little More Baby” (Barry White), “Midnight Train to Georgia” (Gladys Knight & The Pips).

Key Episode Songs
“Resolutions” (2004): “No Scrubs” (TLC), “It’s The End of the World As We Know It” (R.E.M.).
“Lover’s Lane” (2004): “Maniac” (Michael Sembello), “Safety Dance” (Men Without Hats).
“Superstar” (2006): “Ooh Child” (The Five Stairsteps), “Dancing in the Moonlight” (King Harvest).
“Joseph” (2006): “Somewhere Only We Know” (Keane), “The Reason” (Hoobastank).

At our age, we lived through most of the periods shown, although they will occasionally go before our time. We will try to guess the singers’ names, but it is not unusual for us to do a search. Apparently, there is a website devoted to all of the songs played on the show.

Pioneering women – the inverse of The Handmaid’s Tale

It amazes me there are some people who embrace a reactionary movement that wants to restrict the role of women. Maybe not as restrictive as the dystopian “The Handmaid’s Tale,” but some want women restricted to a motherly role. Of course, that pre-Women’s Movement memory does not recall that many families could not afford one wage earner, but let’s set that aside for now.

Let me instead mention a key theme these folks are missing from the book “Half the Sky” by Nicholas Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn. Women hold up half the sky and regions and countries that devalue 1/2 of their assets, cannot compete as well. For people who want to make women more subservient, they should realize more than 1/2 of the people in universities in the US are women. Let’s reflect on women’s role in science, eg.

From an AI Search Summary “Famous female scientists have fundamentally changed our understanding of the world, from radioactivity and DNA to space exploration and environmentalism. Key figures include….

Pioneering Physicists and Chemists
Marie Curie (1867–1934): Pioneered research on radioactivity, discovering polonium and radium. She was the first person to win two Nobel Prizes.
Rosalind Franklin (1920–1958): A British chemist whose X-ray diffraction images (Photo 51) were critical to discovering the DNA double helix structure.
Maria Goeppert Mayer (1906–1972):Won the Nobel Prize in Physics (1963) for proposing the nuclear shell model.
Lise Meitner (1878–1968): Physicist who played a key role in the discovery of nuclear fission.

Biology, Medicine, and Environmental Science
Rachel Carson (1907–1964): Marine biologist and conservationist whose book Silent Spring sparked the modern environmental movement.
Jennifer Doudna (1964–) & Emmanuelle Charpentier (1968–):Awarded the 2020 Nobel Prize in Chemistry for developing CRISPR-Cas9, a genome-editing technology.
Gerty Cori (1896–1957): First woman to win the Nobel Prize in Physiology or Medicine (1947) for her work on metabolism.
Jane Goodall (1934–): Primatologist renowned for her long-term study of chimpanzees.
Alice Ball (1892–1916): Chemist who developed the “Ball Method,” the most effective treatment for leprosy in the early 20th century.

Astronomy, Engineering, and Technology
Ada Lovelace (1815–1852): Often credited as the first computer programmer for her work on Charles Babbage’s Analytical Engine.
Katherine Johnson (1918–2020): NASA mathematician whose orbital mechanics calculations were critical to the success of US manned spaceflights.
Mae C. Jemison (1956–): Physician and first African-American woman to travel in space (1992).
Cecilia Payne-Gaposchkin (1900–1979): Astronomer who proposed that stars were primarily composed of hydrogen and helium.
Grace Hopper (1906–1992): Computer scientist who pioneered computer programming languages.

Geology and Paleontology
Mary Anning (1799–1847): A pioneering fossil hunter whose findings in Jurassic marine fossil beds fundamentally changed scientific thinking about prehistoric life.
Joan Murrell Owens (1933–2011):Geologist who identified new coral species and was the first African American woman to earn a geology PhD.”

These are examples of women’s success in the field of science. I have written before about the actress Hedy Lamarr who developed and patented a communication device for guiding torpedoes that found itself in every cell phone today. I also wrote about a Mary Sherman Morgan who was the first female rocket scientist. But, let’s set that aside.

Not every woman is a scientist. Not every woman is a mother. But, women everywhere work hard at what is asked of them, Many have dual roles of being the main health caretaker in a family while working one or more jobs. Those who want women to focus on the motherly role, need to realize the significant majority of women don’t have that choice – they must do both. For those men who want a wife like that, my reaction is they are are selling women short. They also are failing to learn the lesson of Cat Stevens’ song which says “I’m looking for a hard-headed woman, one who will make me do my best.”


Don’t Laugh at Me – an important Easter repeat story

Peter Yarrow, Noel (Paul) Stookey and Mary Travers made famous a song written by Steve Seskin and Allan Shamblin called “Don’t Laugh at Me.” Mark Wills, another artist has also recorded a variation along with Seskin, but it is the context and words that are embodied in Peter, Paul and Mary that makes the song resonate. When you live your lives speaking out for the disenfranchised, this song takes on far greater meaning than with any other artist, even the writers. Here is the entire song, courtesy of Peter, Paul and Mary with due thanks to Steve Seskin and Allan Shamblin. You can give it a listen after the lyrics.

I’m a little boy with glasses, the one they call the geek. A little girl who never smiles ‘Cause I have got braces on my teeth. And I know how it feels to cry myself to sleep.

I’m that kid on every playground who’s always chosen last. A single teenage mother tryin’ to overcome my past. You don’t have to be my friend but is it too much to ask?

Don’t laugh at me, don’t call me names. Don’t get your pleasure from my pain. In God’s eyes we’re all the same. Someday we’ll all have perfect wings, don’t laugh at me.

I’m the beggar on the corner you’ve passed me on the street. And I wouldn’t be out here beggin’ if I had enough to eat. And don’t think I don’t notice that our eyes never meet.

Don’t laugh at me, don’t call me names. Don’t get your pleasure from my pain. In God’s eyes we’re all the same. Someday we’ll all have perfect wings, don’t laugh at me.

I’m fat, I’m thin I’m short, I’m tall I’m deaf, I’m blind Hey, aren’t we all?

Don’t laugh at me, don’t call me names. Don’t get your pleasure from my pain. In God’s eyes we’re all the same. Someday we’ll all have perfect wings, don’t laugh at me.

Well I’m fat, I’m thin I’m short, I’m tall I’m deaf, I’m blind. In a way we’re all.

I’m black, I’m white. And I am brown. I’m Jewish. I’m Christian. And I’m a Muslim.

I’m gay. I’m lesbian. I’m American Indian. I’m very, very young. I’m quite aged.

I’m quite well fed. I’m very, very poor.

Don’t laugh at me, don’t call me names. Don’t get your pleasure from my pain. In God’s eyes we’re all the same Someday we’ll all have perfect wings, don’t laugh at me.

My country ’tis of thee. oh, sweet land of liberty. It is of thee I that I sing.

http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/DON’T-LAUGH-AT-ME-lyrics-Peter-Paul-Mary/3A0B58077C50623648256A22002CB23E

We need to stop the bullying of others whether it be physical or mental torment. Whether it is in person or online as cyberbullying. Whether it is in the legislature or in the pulpit. But, especially the latter. One of my greatest pet peeves is bigotry from the pulpit and when bigotry is espoused by a spiritual advisor it is just like bullying. And, per Dan Savage who advises teenagers who are bullied because they are gay or lesbian, it does get better. Yet, it could be better still, as we have too many adults and hate groups (which is the extreme version) who try to divide, exclude and torment. Please heed these words and advocate by voice and example to treat all as we want to be treated.

Don’t laugh at me, don’t call me names. Don’t get your pleasure from my pain. In God’s eyes we’re all the same Someday we’ll all have perfect wings, don’t laugh at me

Which one is the minister?

Secretary of Defense Pete Hegseth is praying to God to give him the might to crush his enemies. Mr, Hegseth learned well at the mentoring of his minister. Per The Guardian yesterday:


“James Talarico, the Texas Democratic state representative and Presbyterian seminarian, has said he forgives Pete Hegseth’s pastor for praying for his death. On Tuesday, Texas’s popular Democratic nominee for a US Senate seat pushed back against comments from Brooks Potteiger, the defense secretary’s closest spiritual adviser, who said: ‘We want him crucified with Christ.’

Talarico said on X: ‘Jesus loves. Christian Nationalism kills. You may pray for my death, Pastor, but I still love you. I love you more than you could ever hate me.’”

Now I ask a simple question, which one is the minister? Note, one of my pet peeves is bigotry from the pulpit. To me, it is a breach of faith and trust.

Quotes on aging

A friend forwarded the following quotes without a cite. I will offwr them in quotes as someone else compiled them:

“‘If you want to know
how old a woman is
then ask her sister-inlaw.’
– Edgar Howe

‘Old age comes at a
bad time.’ – San
Banducci

‘Inside every older
person is a younger
person wondering
what happened.’ –
Jennifer Yane

‘Old age is like a plane
flying through a storm.
Once you are aboard
there is nothing you
can do about it.’ –
Golda Meir


‘The older I get, the
more clearly I
remember things that
never happened.’ –
Mark Twain

‘I’m at that age where
my back goes out
more than I do.’ –
Phyllis Diller

‘Nice to be here? At
my age it’s nice to be
anywhere.’ – George
Burns

‘First you forget
names, then you
forget faces, then you
forget to pull your
zipper up, then you
forget to pull your
zipper down.’ – Leo
Rosenberg

‘You spend 90 percent
of your adult life
hoping for a long rest
and the last 10 percent
trying to convince the
Lord that you’re
actually not that tired.’
– Robert Brault

‘Old people shouldn’t
eat health foods. They
need all the
preservatives they can
get.’ – Robert Orben

‘At my age, flowers
scare me.’ – George
Burns

‘It’s like you trade the
virility of the body for
the agility of the
spirit.’ – Elizabeth
Lesser

‘The years between 50
and 70 are the hardest.
You are always being
asked to do things,
and yet you are not
decrepit enough to
turn them down.’ – T.S.
Elliot

‘At age 20, we worry
about what others
think of us… at age 40,
we don’t care what
they think of us… at
age 60, we discover
they haven’t been
thinking of us at all.’ –
Ann Landers

‘When I was young, I
was called a rugged
individualist. When I
was in my fifties, I was
considered eccentric.
Here I am doing and
saying the same
things I did then, and
I’m labeled senile.’ –
GB

‘The important thing
to remember is that
I’m probably going to
forget.’ – Unknown


‘We don’t grow older,
we grow riper.’ – Pablo
Picasso

‘It’s paradoxical that
the idea of living a
long life appeals to
everyone, but the idea
everyone, but the idea
of getting old doesn’t
appeal to anyone.’ –
Andy Rooney

‘The older I get, the
better I used to be.’ –
Lee Trevino

‘I was thinking about
how people seem to
read the bible a lot
more as they get older,
and then it dawned on
me—they’re cramming
for their final exam.’ –
George Carlin

‘Everything slows
down with age, except
the time it takes cake
and ice cream to reach
your hips.’ – John
Wagnerf

‘Grandchildren don’t
make a man feel old,
it’s the knowledge that
he’s married to a
grandmother that
does.’ – J. Norman
Collie

‘When your friends
begin to flatter you on
how young you look,
it’s a sure sign you’re
getting old.’ – Mark
Twain

‘You know you are
getting old when
everything either dries
up or leaks.’ – Joel
Plaskett

‘There’s one
advantage to being
102, there’s no peer
pressure.’ – Dennis
Wolfberg

‘There are three
stages of man: he
believes in Santa
Claus, he does not
believe in Santa Claus,
he is Santa Claus.’ –
Bob Phillips

‘Looking fifty is great
—if you’re sixty.’ –
Joan Rivers

‘At my age ‘getting
lucky’ means walking
into a room and
remembering what I
came in for.’ –
Unknown

‘Old age is when you
resent the swimsuit
issue of Sports
Illustrated because
there are fewer articles
to read.’ – George
Burns

‘Time may be a great
healer, but it’s a lousy
beautician.’ –
Anonymous”

One that came from Billy Graham is “Old age is not for sissies.” Carl Reiner said, he would read the obituaries each morning and if he was not in them, he would get dressed.

Let me know your thoughts or if you have others.

“Democracy is not a spectator sport”

The following was sent to me by a former multi-term Mayor of Charlotte, Jennifer Roberts. I know her from past dealings on human services issues and she is a very informed person, taking time to educate herself on issues.

“From WFAE’s Steve Harrison:
‘More than 800,000 people voted in the Democratic U.S. Senate primary Tuesday, where Roy Cooper easily defeated five candidates with 92% of the vote. Despite the low stakes – how many people in the state could name one other person on the ballot? – Democratic turnout was up more than 30% compared to 2022.

On the Republican side, only 626,000 people voted in the GOP primary this year, with favorite Michael Whatley getting 65%. That’s an 18% drop from the number of voters who cast ballots when Ted Budd won the Republican primary four years ago over Pat McCrory.

Four years ago, that enthusiasm gap in the primaries held through the general election in November, when Budd defeated Beasley.

This year, Democrats and some unaffiliated voters are furious about President Trump and they seem eager to show that anger at the ballot box.’

Many thanks to all of you who turned out to vote on March 3!”

I think it is a good time to remind people of the third “No Kings March” on Saturday. I have made the first two and also went on the Women’s March” sans pink hat in Trump’s first term.

But, the more important message is above – get out and vote. Don’t be a spectator. And, vote for people who are speaking to real, economic and healthcare issues and not contrived ones.

“Suffs” – a must see musical

Take a few American heroes like Alice Paul, Inez Milholland, Ida B. Wells, Carrie Chapman Catt, et al, add in a story around their struggle to gain voting rights for women, and mix in terrific music and lyrics and you end up with a superb musical called “Suffs.” The shortened name is for suffragists, not suffragettes, which the women note in the musical is a cheapened way of saying what they are.

Yesterday, my wife, our daughter and I saw “Suffs,” as a touring Broadway show. We were hard pressed to think of a bad song, and had trouble picking a favorite. The cast, writer and director are appropriately all female, with women playing the male roles like Woodrow Wilson and his chief of staff. Shaina Taub wrote the book, music and lyrics while this version was directed by Leigh Silverman.

The song that stood out to me was shortened to “GAB,“ which stands for “Great American Bitch.” One of the women felt bad that a name calling man called her the B word to denigrate their cause. Her comrades told her it was a badge of honor. These women were tired of the less effective patient process which allowed a lot of stiff-arming by men in power and were starting to push the envelope.

These women needed every bit of resolve. They had to battle not only men in elected office, but women in leadership who did not want them to push as hard. They had to recognize racism against black women was preventing their full throated inclusion in the fight. Nonetheless, Ida B. Wells and her supporters showed up to help white women get the vote. Blacks were technically not excluded, but practically were so due to Jim Crow laws. A very poignant song sung by Ida B. Wells and her two friends after they won the vote is “I was here.” But, a key song which was sung twice (once as a reprise following “I was here”) tells the theme “Finish the fight.”

My wife and daughter loved the show. They said they experienced a range of emotions. At points, they were mad, at others they were proud, plus everything inbetween. My daughter said she could not wait to share with her musical loving friends how much she loved the show. It blended her passion for advocacy with the same fervor for musical theater. Let me add that I saw a number of young girls and boys in attendance, which made me feel optimistic. I recommend you go see it when it comes through your city.

Late comer to Game of Thrones

Game of Thrones – I am a late comer to this party, watching the 74 episode series over the past two and a half months. It is actually a quite fascinating series with many storylines and interesting characters. It would even be interesting without some of the mysticism that weaves through it. Yet, if you plan to watch it, know it can get violent very quickly.

My two adult sons and brother loved the series when it first came out, so as I shared where I was in the series, they were very good about avoiding spoiler type comments. My adult daughter stayed away as she noted there was a denigration of women. With that said, some of the best and more interesting characters are women and often they are leaders or talented people in the series.

Two of my favorite characters are Arya Stark and Brienne of Tarth. We watched Arya grow up from a tom-boyish girl who was thirsty to learn swordplay and any new skill thrown at her. She is the youngest daughter of the Stark family, known for the integrity of their father and savviness of their mother.

Brienne is a knight-like fighter, but cannot be called one as she is not a male. Yet, her stature and capability allow her to be a formidable fighter. But, what also makes her interesting is her steadfast integrity. She is duty bound to any task she is given. As a result, she stands out. A couple of other favorites are Jorah Mormont, who is a guard/ advisor to Daenerys Targaryen, and Ser Davos Seaworth who advises several folks after his very humble beginnings.

Another touchstone character like Brienne is that of Jon Snow, the bastard child of the head of the Stark family and an unknown mother. More of his heritage unfolds later. He is a natural leader but is equipped with a good heart. He tries to do the right thing even if it is not a popular thing. His unique friendship with Samwell Tarly, a more bookish and less combative person, is a mainstay of the story. Jon’s relationship with his half sister Sansa is also crucial , as she is a more shrewd leader than Jon, whose good heart causes him to run afoul with politicos. She learns so much from being in close proximity to some Machiavellian type people.

There is so much more I could speak of, but the Jon/ Samwell relationship permits me to close with this comment. The series is replete with interesting relationships between friends, family members, lovers and even adversaries. The relationship between brothers Tyrion and Jaime Lannister is crucial, but each have important relationships with others in the story. The relationship between Cersei (their sister) and her brothers, father, children, advisors and adversaries is crucial to the story. And the relationship between Daenerys Targaryen (the Mother of Dragons) and her advisors, lovers and adversaries is important as well. Yet, one of the understated relationships is between Tyrion and Lord Varys, both students of information and history. Their discussion on the pros and cons of any issue is critical to the story.Those two along with Samwell and Arya’s brother Bran are the historians for us viewers.

To avoid an even longer post, I will stop here. The show has many great actors and future stars in its make-up. Also, more than several great actors have smaller guest starring roles. Some are extended cameos, but most are several episodes long.

It is worth the watch, but be wary of the violence (which is not omnipresent except for a handful of shows) and the occasional scenes with nudity and sex. On the latter pay attention to the pre-show cautions. Yet, what counters that are more than a few tender scenes between friends, lovers, and family. There is a lovely father-daughter moment, for example, that will tug at your heartstrings. Plus, a scene between husband and wife when she tells him she is pregnant is very poignant. I will leave off the character names to avoid spoilers.

Please note, I am firmly aware I left off many great characters. There is no way to have a brief summary of this series.



Undocumented immigrants deserve some humanity

I wrote the following as a comment on Jill’s blog to rebut a comment that undocumented immigrants deserve no quarter here and should be denied entry and removed forcibly if here.

“Regardless of how one feels about undocumented immigrants, there are three key points that concern me as an Independent and former Republican voter:

-people are owed due process within the borders of our country;

-many undocumented immigrants have been hired by managers and owners of all political persuasions to bolster numerous industries – construction, roofing, landscaping, food processing, restaurant, hospitality, healthcare, crop harvesting, etc. (transition planning would have been helpful);

-people deserve a less heavy handed approach than has been used. To me, it seems we have done a disservice by being harmful as we round up folks.

If the mission is to exit undocumented immigrants, I understand that, but the process could have been far better planned and executed, in my view.”


The one point I will add is this. Managers and owners who hired all of these undocumented immigrants were not necessarily altruistic. The reasons were varied and several. They hired them to fill jobs that others did not want; they hired them because they could pay them in cash with not added benefit costs or FICA taxes; they hired them because if they were injured on the job, they did not have to pay workers compensation; and they hired them because they were as close to slave labor as they could get.

If we did not want undocumented immigrants, then why did elected officials turn a blind eye and let these managers hire them for multiple decades. Let me close with a true story – when a major textile company declared full bankruptcy, federal officials spoke to an auditorium of workers to tell them how they could be helped. They said if you don’t have a Social Security number, we can’t help you. 1/3 of the audience stood up and left.


Four Presidents comment on Reverend Jesse Jackson

An American icon and a first hand link to the teachings of Martin Luther King, Jr. – Reverend Jesse Jackson – has passed. Per The Guardian, “Three Democratic former presidents led a wealth of tributes to Jesse Jackson, a ‘titan’ of the civil rights movement and ‘one of America’s greatest patriots’ who has died at the age of 84.

Joe Biden said history would remember Jackson as ‘a man of God and of the people’, calling him in a social media post: ‘Determined and tenacious. Unafraid of the work to redeem the soul of our Nation.’

Biden added: ‘I’ve seen how Reverend Jackson has helped lead our Nation forward through tumult and triumph. He’s done it with optimism, and a relentless insistence on what is right and just.’….

Barack Obama called Jackson ‘a true giant’ in a statement posted on Instagram.

‘For more than 60 years, Reverend Jackson helped lead some of the most significant movements for change in human history. From organizing boycotts and sit-ins, to registering millions of voters, to advocating for freedom and democracy around the world, he was relentless in his belief that we are all children of God, deserving of dignity and respect,’ he said….

‘Michelle and I will always be grateful for Jesse’s lifetime of service, and the friendship our families share. We stood on his shoulders. We send our deepest condolences to the Jackson family and everyone in Chicago and beyond who knew and loved him,’ he said….

Bill Clinton said he and former first lady Hillary Clinton were friends with Jackson for more than five decades, and were ‘deeply saddened’ by his passing.

‘Reverend Jackson championed human dignity and helped create opportunities for countless people to live better lives,’ he said in a statementon Instagram.

‘[He] never stopped working for a better America with brighter tomorrows, including his historic campaigns for the presidency in 1984 and 1988 in which he championed the concerns of Black, Latino, Asian, and lower income white Americans.’….

Donald Trump, in a post on his Truth Social social media platform, called Jackson ‘a good man’ and a ‘friend’, also noting he had provided office space in New York for Jackson’s Rainbow Push Coalition.

Trump’s post, as is often the case, quickly turned political, and about himself. The president attacked the ‘scoundrels and Lunatics on the Radical Left’ who, he said, ‘falsely and consistently’ called him a racist, and sought recognition for ‘funding Historically Black Colleges and Universities (HBCUs), which Jesse loved’.“

It should be noted that Trump gave a Presidential Freedom medal to a famous radio broadcaster who routinely mocked Jesse Jackson on his show. Why this divisive broadcaster was so honored is another story. Many have come out with plaudits for the life of service for Jackson. Unlike the incumbent president, these commentators did not denigrate others in so doing. I include his message because he did say a couple of kind words for Jackson before he segued.

Jackson stood up for people. We should never forget that key. To some critics, his oratory deflected from his messaging, but at his heart he was a preacher, so speaking poetically should not be frowned upon, in my view. May he RIP.