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Misadventures of a bookworm

how I survive my everyday life and still am positive tomorrow will be better...

Friending Frenzy
martj
I can't deny that I've been feeling a bit lonely lately. It is my fault, I won't pretend it isn't. I haven't been much online and, as a result, my followers forgot about me and probably found me a bit boring when I came back with (more or less) regular posts. I won't blame anyone who did. Still  I want to really thank those few who still comment on my entries and who're still there, pretty active on my flist!

I recently gave penpalling a thought. I have always been an avid penpal, one of those who wrote very long letters. I've always thought my own life as an old woman writing snail mail to my far away friends. BUT. I sort of lose interest in it. I still do keep touch with my old pals, of course. They are friends and I wouldn't let them down, never. But writing a proper snail mail. Well, that is another thing. I just can't find the time to do it. I have never got a single day when I can sit down for a solid hour and use that time for writing. I've got a snail mail to my best friend Eva sitting on my desk, unanswered, for some 3 months! Shame!
Anyway, since I haven't got time to write snail mail I think I will give my whole time to blogging and journalling. That's more immediate. There's no waiting for an answer. And typing is faster than handwriting. At least it is for me! But I need friends on here. Because with no friends to share my thoughts with it's no fun! That's why I posted this Friending Frenzy! Hope I can get myself new followers and friends!

A few bits about me.
Name, Marta. Nationality, Italian. Living in Central Italy. Currently working in social work. Not sure what future has in store for me in the work field. Getting married to my one and only on October 12th this year. Dog owner. Bookworm. Nuts about the net and some tv series. Lactose intolerant. Love to travel. I am a rambler. Need to be more regular with posts though, but doing my best to improve!

Friending Frenzy
nerdyme
martj
There's a friending frenzy going on here on LJ and I joined it, in the hope to make a bit less quiet my own journal.. Here's the link to it   http://users.livejournal.com/lindalee_/1336803.html?view=7009763#t7009763   just in case you too need some new friends to add to your f-list! 

Who knows if there are Friending Frenzies on DW as well?!

Penpals Secret Santa 2012
deardiary
martj
Hello fellow penpals! 
Christmas is my favourite time of the whole year. Comes October and  I start counting days down to Christmas! I love, love, love everything involving Christmas carols, Christmas markets and Christmas movies... And of course I am fan of Secret Santa! This year though I would like to host a slightly different Secret Santa. We still get to swap our gifts (let's say we'll try and fit a budget of 10€ each) but together with them we'll have to send our Secret Santa partner an intro letter. We may find a potential friend in our swap partner and a new friendship would be the best and most prized Christmas pressie ever!
So, here you are a few rules:

- You can sign up for the Penpals Secret Santa untill November 10th. 
- You'll receive via email your match Secret Santa partner's details by November 15th
- You have to send out your Secret Santa envie by December 10th. 
- The Secret Santa present(s) -it's up to you if you want to send out one single item or more- must cost around 10€

To take part to the Penpal Secret Santa do please email me (paper_and_ink@hotmail.it) this entry form all filled in with your info, I will match everyone before November 15th.

Name:
Age:
Profession:
Hobbies:
(Average) Letters Lenght:
A few words about yourself: 
Favourite Book:
Snail Mail Adresse:
Allergies:
Likes:
Dislikes:

Ok, now do sign up for this year Penpals Secret Santa and spread the word with your pals and friends please: the more, the merrier! 

Top-Secret-Santa-Red-Holiday-Party-Invitation




Writer's Block: B.Y.O.B. Holidays
martj
Oh, my holiday wishlist would be sooooo long to even be listed down! lol* Most of all I would like to spend a happy Xmas,in spite of a recent loss and in spite of ups and downs life gives us. 
On a more trivial side, I would really love a pair of camper sneakers that I saw online on camper official site and are unavailable in Italy: they are purple in color and with multicolo drawings...So lovely!

What is on your holiday wish list this year? One random answer will win a $50 Amazon gift card. [Details here]

Writer's Block: B.Y.O.B. Holidays
martj
Being a Catholic, I celebrate December the 8th, the Annunciation of the Angel to the Virgin that she's with a baby boy, the Son of God. We usually go to Mass on that day and spend the day decorating the house for Xmas: most families put up a tree and a nativity. The day is usually spent at home with family. 
Of course, for the same reason as before, I also celebrate December 25th, Xmas day. It starts at midnight in the night between 24th and 25th when there's the Holy Mass. Then we exhange pressies with friends in front of the church and are never home untill 2 am. We have a big lunch with family and have a few hours rest in the afternoon before we go back to eat a big dinner with family again. Xmas days can ben tiresome, but it's my favourite day ever!
We're off work on 26th also, but I wouldn't say we really celebrate it. We rather spend the day at home, eating leftovers and reading, watching tv and (me) writing. 
Then comes December the 31st, when we celebrate Silvester's. I think I celebrate this one because it'd not be considered as "normal" not to! But I am not one for Silvester's, not at all! Anyway, we usually have a big dinner (yes, in Italy we're all about eating...lol) with friends. Usually we cook it ourselves so that we save money. We end the year eating and start into the new year toasting with sparkly wine and then playing card games and role games and board games untill the crack of dawn! 
Which December holidays do you celebrate, and why? One random answer will win a $50 Amazon gift card. [Details here]

Writer's Block: Bless you!
martj
 Oh, it's not really an allergy, rather an intolerance (even if it's quite severe): I am lactose intolerant. It also gives me severe stomach cramps and I even ended up throwing up in public once because of some hidden lactose in a restaurant dish that wasn't supposed to contain any! I tell you, it's not fun! Did you know that most food contains lactose?! Apart from cheese, milk, cream, yogurt, ice-cream...I am not allowed to eat most cookies, hamburger, chips (!), sausages, smoked ham, chocolate (!!!!), sandwiches bread and other foods I can't remember of right now... Still I am glad I finally found out what's that made my life so miserable after months of trying selective diets!  
What are you allergic to?

2011 letters project
martj
I've just found out about this lovely project on Facebook. I will post here the link to this family's blog, so that if anyone like to take part in the project can do it! And please spread the voice with your friends! This project is too amazing not to help them! :)

Writer's Block: Good eats
martj
What are your three most and least favorite foods?

Among my three most favourite foods I would list:

pizza, lasagne and french fries.. unluckily if my suspected lactose intolerance is proved true I will be forced to change my fave ones priority, since pizza and lasagne will be offlimits for little me! So, given a lactose intolerance, I would list 3 foods as it follows: french fries, spinach and (how comes I cannot really think of a fave 3rd food?!?) .. and .. pineapple, I got it! Looks pretty sad of a favourite list, huh?!

3 least favourite food.. that i think should mean food i don't really like:

artichokes are a big NO-NO with me here, 2nd rank in my least fave food list goes to olives (unless it is fried  green olives filled with minced meat we talk about..in that case I like them!), last but not least is fish (again an exception is made for tuna in tins and seafood).

meme stolen from princesslia84 :)
martj
I AM: happy. sad. a good friend. adventurous. shy. confident. procrastinating. a male. bored. anxious. clumsy. sociable. always punctual. selfish. intelligent. funny. a female. sarcastic. insecure. sick. beautiful. articulate. loud. kind. even tempered. honest. short. tall. medium height. proud of myself. loving. witty. down to earth. outspoken. determined. high maintenance. pretty. assertive. organized. selfless.

I HAVE: brown hair. blue eyes. pale skin. brown eyes. curly hair. long fingernails. curves. braces. chipped nail polish. long legs. long hair. straight hair. a fringe. long eyelashes. sore feet. dark skin. green eyes. blonde hair. dyed hair. red hair. short legs. rosy cheeks. wavy hair. black hair. a small waist. piercings. tattoos. big ears. small ears.

I LOVE: babies. flowers. kisses. summer. coffee. the rain. candles. incense. late night talk shows. insects. hugs. attention. the beach. chocolate. music. hats. harry potter. twilight. facebook. black and white photos. sleeping in. narrating my pet’s thoughts. opening gifts. buying gifts. halloween. cute texts. apples. compliments. country music. hip hop. sushi. sports. art. singing. seeing my loved ones happy. surprises. sunsets and sunrises. skinny dipping. horror movies. simon cowell. family guy. garlic. hearing somebody talk in their sleep. being right. kfc. abstract photography. concerts and festivals. tanning. over sized t-shirts. driving.

I WOULD LOVE TO BE A: police officer. lawyer. doctor. teacher. fruit picker. mother. greenpeace volunteer. hippie. groupie. rockstar. footballer’s wife. therapist. singer. actress. diving instructor. lottery winner. company owner. housewife. nurse. builder. race car driver. website developer. an inspirational talker. music teacher. artist. chef. makeup artist. hairdresser. restaurant owner. homeless shelter volunteer. fitness trainer. vet. radio show host. band manager.

I LIKE TO EAT: fruit. vegetables. fast food. sushi. rice. sandwiches. subway. chicken. cakes. seafood. pasta. rice crackers. cheese. ice cream. lunch. garlic bread. peanut butter out of the jar. eggs. lots of ethnic foods. pancakes. honey. bread crusts. low calorie foods. soy products. gluten free products. toast. breakfast. pizza.

I DISLIKE: cold mornings. baths. people dissing my taste in music. people in front of me walking really slowly. having my personal space invaded. cleaning. going to bed early. wine/beer. religion arguments. coffee. the beach. rain. children. having my photo taken. drama. gossiping. hip hop. cooking shows. drugs. cats. people singing happy birthday to me. school. selfish people. social networking sites. swimming. snow. eminem. seafood. one word text messages. awkward silences. alarm clocks.

I LIKE: Reading. Writing. The Beatles. True Blood. Demi Lovato. Miley Cyrus. Selena Gomez. Taylor Swift. Knitting. Crafts. Perez Hilton. Tea. Cats. Twitter. Cold weather. Tofu. Hummus. Adam Lambert. Muse. The Killers. Jay Leno. Conan O’Brien. Craig Ferguson. PCs. John Lennon. Jennifer Aniston. LOST. Marriage Equality. Michael Buble. Poetry. Yoga. Crocs. Peace. My hometown. Proper spelling. Proper grammar. Disney. Saturday Night Live. Stem Cell Research. Green movement. Adopting animals. Vegetarianism/Veganism. Jimmy Fallon. Learning new languages. David Bowie. Snow. Horror books. Fantasy books. Disney Channel Shows. Being pale.

I AM: a cuddler. I am a morning person. I am an only child. I am currently in my pyjamas. I am currently pregnant. I am currently single. I am currently suffering from a broken heart. I am left handed. I am married. I am addicted to my MySpace. I am online 24/7, even as an away message. I am a little shy around the opposite gender at first. I bite my nails. I can be paranoid at times. I don’t like anyone. I enjoy country music. I enjoy jazz music. I enjoy smoothies. I enjoy talking on the phone. I have a car. I have/had a hard time paying attention at school. I have a hidden talent. I have a pet. I have a tendency to fall for the "wrong" guy/girl. I have all my grandparents. I have been to another country. I have been told that I have an unusual sense of humour. I have or had broken a bone. I have caller I.D. on my phone. I have bathed someone. I have changed a diaper. I have changed a lot over the past year. I have done something illegal. I have friends who have never seen my natural hair color. I have had major/minor surgery. I have had my hair cut within the last week. I have mood swings. I have no idea what I want to do for the rest of my life. I have rejected someone before. I have seen The Lord of the Rings trilogy. I like the taste of blood. I love Michael Jackson. I love sleeping. I love to play computer games. I love to shop. I own 100 CDs or more. I own and use a library card. I read books for pleasure in my spare time. I sleep a lot during the day. I strongly dislike maths. I was born in a country other than the US. I watch soap operas on a regular basis. I work at a job that I enjoy. I would classify myself as ghetto. I would get plastic surgery if it were 100% safe, free of cost, and scar-free. I am currently wearing socks. I am tired. I love to paint/draw/sketch/sculpt.

I HAVE/HAD: Graduated high school. Rode every ride at an amusement park. Collected something really stupid. Gone to a rock concert. Helped someone. Gone fishing. Spun turn tables. Watched four movies in one night. Been dumped. Failed a class. Dealt drugs. Taken a college level course. Been in a car accident. Been in a tornado. Done hard drugs (i.e. ecstasy, heroin, crack, meth, acid). Watched someone/something die. Been to a funeral. Burned yourself. Ran a marathon. Your parents got divorced. Keep a memory box. Cried yourself to sleep. Spent over $200 in one day. Cheated on someone. Been cheated on. Written a 10 page letter. Gone skiing. Been sailing. Had a best friend. Lost someone you loved. Shoplifted something. Been to jail. Had detention .Skipped school. Got in trouble for something you didn’t do. Stolen books from the library. Gone to a different country. Been in a mental hospital. Watched the "Harry Potter" movies. Fired a gun. Gambled in a casino. Had a yard sale. And a lemonade stand. Actually made money at the lemonade stand. Been in a school play. Been fired from a job. Taken a lie detector test. Swam with dolphins. Gone to Sea World. Attempted suicide. Voted for American/Australian/Pop/NZ Idol. Written poetry. Read more than 20 books a year. Gone to Europe. Loved someone you couldn’t have. Wondered about your sexuality. Used a colouring book over age 12. Had surgery. Had stitches. Taken a taxi. Seen the Washington Monument. Had more than 5 IM’s/online conversations going at once. Overdosed. Had a drug or alcohol problem. Been in a fist fight. Had a hamster. Petted a wild animal. Used a credit card. Gone surfing in California. Did "spirit day" at school. Dyed your hair. Got a tattoo. Had something pierced. Got straight A’s. Been on the Honour Roll. Your parents sent you to a shrink. Been handcuffed. Known someone with HIV or AIDS. Taken pictures with a webcam. Started a fire.

Writer's Block: Open book test
martj
Based on the books on your bookshelf, what conclusions would people draw about you?



 first of all they would of course say that I am a real bookworm! i have shelves full of books and my friend ilaria always says that visiting my room is like taking a tour of a library.. lol* this is of course my proud and joy!
you'd surely get it that i am an english geek, because half the books i own are in english. and you'd probably say that i am organized and tidy, because my books are ordered in descending order according to their height.. people would surely get it that i am omnivore, as i read anything.. as long as it is prose! they would get it that i rather buy paperbacks than hardcovers. of course you probably wouldn't get it why i do it.. i buy paperbacks because i love to live my books to the fullest, i bring them everywhere, bend the spine, turn the pages, read when eating, when in bed, when walking and even when at the loo.. :) and my books mustn't stay like new, but have to proudly show their owner's activity from their outside look. 
last but not least people would get it by taking a close look to my books that i am a compulsive shopping addict when it is about books! i own over 80 books to be read on my shelves, yet you can find new titles almost weekly if you come to my personal library! :)