Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.
—  Ephesians 4:29

Thought Of The Day...
A study showed that in order to cancel the devastating effects of one negative word, four positive words need to be spoken. This shows how negative, harsh, and humiliating words can do great damage to human beings.
Our passage for today uses vivid imagery to speak about the impact our words can have. Just as a small rudder can steer a ship or a bit can control a horse, so the words of our mouths can make a big difference in life. Further, our speech can have the same effect as a spark: it can cause great destruction! We are encouraged, then, to choose our words carefully and to recognize the impact our speech makes.
In Ephesians 4, Paul provides similar teaching about positive language; we are called to build others up and speak in a way that helps the people who hear our words.
Children are often the first victims of negative language. I grew up in a family in which my mother was often beaten harshly by her husband, my adoptive father. The demeaning words he used against her continue to haunt me, and they come back in my dreams. Thankfully, the love of Jesus has healed much of this trauma, and by grace I am able to show love to my family.
As we reflect on the power of words, let’s consider how—with the Spirit’s help—we can bring healing for people who have faced trauma.

Prayer....
Heavenly Father, Let no corrupt or harmful word proceed from our mouths, but only what is good for building others up, according to their needs, that it may give grace to those who hear. Lord, help us to be people marked by kind, uplifting, gracious, and healing words.
May our speech reflect the heart of Christ, bringing encouragement where there is discouragement, peace where there is conflict, and hope where there is despair. Guard our tongues, and fill our hearts with love so that our words overflow with your truth and compassion.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.