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PAUL JUDGE……

spontaneous watercolour of Paul

When Paul Judge and I met at a skating party in the Pocono Mountains…we immediately clicked. I was twenty four and Paul twenty one. We were both only children born in London from similar backgrounds.

At that time I was still working for Sandy Lewis on the block stock trading desk in New York and Paul was studying at the Wharton Business School on a Thouron Scholarship.

For a while we visited one another in Philadelphia and New York….until we decided that we would marry when Paul graduated from Wharton. This also worked with Jarrod’s schooling in England, and my plan to resume work as an artist.

We enjoyed some good times at Wharton….with its many international students and fun evenings at Smokey Joe’s and La Terrasse………….. To make life more convenient before the move back to the UK, I was able to transfer to the Philadelphia White, Weld office…………where I sat next to a man called Bill Reed…….!

In the meantime Paul was doing very well at Wharton….and had already been offered a position with Cadbury Schweppes……….becoming Deputy Finance Director at 28 years old.

Jarrod during this time.

This is where I smile broadly to myself.

Paul was appointed Knight Bachelor in 1996 for public and political service and was key benefactor of the Judge Business School at the the University of Cambridge.

Sadly Paul died in 2017…..However we kept in touch over the years. I was with him shortly before his death.

On the subject of MONEY

As long as my needs are met and I am able to follow the creative process…. – money has never been of great importance to me -something that many have not understood…Paul Included……..

I am a great fan of Joseph Campbell...who encouraged individuals to pursue their deepest passions and authentic interests to find meaning, joy, and purpose in life.

This is when we encounter ‘hidden hands’ or the unseen energy which I talk about a great deal, leading to a life that feels authentic. Not about constant pleasure, but about deep fulfillment.

My first ‘selfie’ taken on my 80th birthday this past week.

My next post is all about ‘none of us being creative enough to know how things will actually work out……….’

Meeting Bill Reed.

Babette’s Feast – a story of transformation

I am someone who enjoys reading obituaries, and so I was interested to learn that Gabriel Axel died a few years ago aged 95.    He was best known to the English-speaking world for the film Babette’s Feast, adapted by Axel from Isak Dinesen’s short story of the same title.

I first saw this Danish production when it was released in 1987.    It was a film that spoke to me in many ways, not the least of which was its visual beauty.

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The story is about two 19th century spinsters, Phillapa and Matine who live a pious existence in their fishing village on the west coast of Norway.

Using flashbacks, the film returns us to their youth where we see the lives of two young women controlled and governed by the tyrannical rule of their minister father.    

After the fathers death, Phillapa and Matine continue the father’s dictate of self denial and chastity.

Later in their lives it was the arrival of  Babette, a refugee from Paris that was to bring transformation not just to Phillipa and Matine but also to the few remaining souls who had been part of their father’s flock.

The pivotal moment is when Babette wins some lottery money and invests the winnings into a memorial dinner to mark what would have been the 100th birthday of the dead Minister. 

Babette preparing the feast. 

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The feast which celebrates life, love and food, is made up of all sorts of exotic delicacies and wine…….

To begin with the villagers are horrified, but as the sensuality of the experience works its magic, they are transformed. 

This is a story that resonates with me on many levels, and reminds me of a very special person in my life, Madame Nottale. 

I painted this portrait of Madame Nottale in the eighties, after she had prepared a feast in my honour when I visited her in Marley le Roi, outside of Paris.

A remarkable woman on so many levels, Madame Nottale’s life would make an amazing book.     Along with her extraordinary experiences as a child and in World War 2, she  raised eight children, continuing to work as a nurse throughout.   Her husband, was away at sea for most of the time.

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Madame Nottale continued to work as a nurse into her late seventies.     Over the years, she had suffered great loss, and yet continued to be there for her family and those she was nursing.

Then around the age of eighty came transformation…..

For the first time in her life, she was able to do what she wanted to do, which was write and paint.     Her family were amazed to see this huge part of her being revealed.     

I visited her in LePecq to find that her room was filled with paintings and drawings….every surface covered.     Together we talked about painting, colour, writing, love and life. 

Madame Nottale’s whole countenance had changed – a softness had come to her face.   During our time together, I made a quick watercolour sketch which I feel expressed her transformation. 

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Babette’s Feast, and the story of Madame Nottale show us that it is never too late to open up to the simple joys of being fully alive.