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One time when I was traveling, I met someone with whom I had a very interesting conversation about sales. I was sitting at an airport waiting for my plane and started talking with the young man sitting next to me. He was wearing a nice suit, was equipped with a laptop, and looked like he was traveling for work. I asked if he was going to the same business event I was going to; he was not. However, during our conversation he said that he was new to the sales industry and found it somewhat difficult to achieve the level of success he had envisioned for himself when he first got into his profession. I offered some advice to him and I’m going to share it here with you, too.
I believe one of the most important keys to selling is understanding the buyer’s perspective.
Selling has everything to do with finding out what the customer wants, what they are able to pay for, and then making the deal (with the assumption that you can provide the service and/or product they want). Yet, this process is far from straightforward. If it were truly that simple, there would be no demand for salespeople; buyers could get everything they need from a machine.
Many buyers embark on their purchasing journey with only vague ideas of what they may need. Turning a buyer’s vagueness into clear solutions is the job of the salesperson. It is also their job to remember that the buyer is looking for the best possible solution for their needs, delivered to them in an effective and pleasurable manner.
It is crucial to recognize that buyers are multifaceted, and they are going to weigh the pros and cons of any potential purchase. Some considerations are shared openly with the seller, while others are kept to themselves. Adapting to the buyer’s unspoken thoughts and progressing towards a satisfying conclusion represents a complex and intricate task that rests on the shoulders of the adept sales professional. As we step into an era of heightened consumer awareness and digital empowerment, understanding the nuances of the buyer’s perspective requires a blend of traditional acumen and contemporary insights.
The Sales Clock
My friend Brian Roach, a computer technology expert, told me about a concept he calls the sales clock, which he described like this:
It’s a great day. You answered a call from a new prospect, met with their team to discuss your product, and . . . they asked you for a proposal. Soon after delivering your proposal, you started your wait for their decision. The sales clock ticks as you wait on the fate of your proposal. It may tick a long time before hearing back from the customer, and as the seller, you don’t know if you are being ‘stiffed’ or if the customer is swamped with other pressing priorities. Whatever the reason, waiting out the sales clock can be stressful. The last thing you want is for your own stress to create a negative impact on your prospect.
Brian reminds us that ‘it’s all about the customer,’ in the sense that they are the ultimate buyer. And yet the seller also must earn a wage or commission, meet monthly targets, and ensure proper scheduling for the workload. The waiting period after proposal submission remains a source of stress for sellers awaiting the prospective client’s decision. In this evolved sales clock, time ticks not only in hours but in the real-time interactions that occur across diverse digital platforms.
Sellers must now navigate the intricacies of a digitally connected world. The customer’s perspective is shaped by instantaneous responses, personalized interactions, and the seamless integration of online and offline experiences. Brian’s sales clock reminds us to always look at both the customer’s perspective as well as the seller’s demands with each sales scenario.
Tapping into the Customer’s Perspective
I have some tactics to help you as the seller determine if the buyer is putting you off or simply attending to other pressing business demands. I am also sharing some effective communication techniques which will help you tap into the customer’s perspective.
- Attentive Listening:
Actively listen to what they are saying without thinking ahead to what you are going to say next. Focus on them, their words, and their body language to discern whether they are genuinely disinterested or perhaps preoccupied with other matters.
- Understand Behavioral Styles:
Learning about behavioral styles gives you knowledge about how to craft your sales interactions to the style of communication that is most comfortable to the client. All people like to be communicated with in a manner that is most familiar to them, and this helps you customize a sales approach for each unique individual.
- Product Presentation:
The product presentation is one form of customer communication that has a strong influence on a successful sale.
Andy Bounds, a sales communication expert from England, reminds us that the
“ . . . prospect is really interested in the total opposite of most commonly delivered product presentations. The prospect only cares about his or her own present and future, whereas most presentations focus on the seller’s past and on the product features.” Andy reminds us to talk about what the product will do for the customer rather than its features. His favorite phrase is, “Customers don’t care what you do; they care about what they’re left with AFTER you’ve done it.” He uses the word “after” to keep the product presentation focused on the customer’s needs, and recommends these customer-oriented questions:
- “What are you looking to achieve after our work together?”
- “What would success look like to you as a result of this project?”
- “Looking back a year from now, what will need to happen for you to think things have gone brilliantly?”
Nothing works perfectly every time; being able to read the customer’s buying signals is crucial to making necessary course corrections that meet the customer’s top-of-mind concerns.
The state of the selling art allows masterful salespeople to combine a little science with human relation strategies to create a wonderful buying experience for the consumer, while still maximizing the seller’s commission.
As a business professional, you want to craft a positive buying experience while also making it a seamless and memorable journey for the consumer. Timing remains as crucial as ever, and mastering these strategies and techniques is imperative for sellers to address today’s customers effectively by understanding and respecting their perspective.


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