This PR facilitates augmenting the context of an `InfoTree` with
*partial* contexts while elaborating a command. Using partial contexts,
this PR also adds support for tracking the parent declaration name of a
term in the `InfoTree`. The parent declaration name is needed to compute
the call hierarchy in #3082.

Specifically, the `Lean.Elab.InfoTree.context` constructor is refactored
to take a value of the new type `Lean.Elab.PartialContextInfo` instead
of a `Lean.Elab.ContextInfo`, which now refers to a full `InfoTree`
context. The `PartialContextInfo` is then merged into a `ContextInfo`
while traversing the tree using
`Lean.Elab.PartialContextInfo.mergeIntoOuter?`. The partial context
after executing `liftTermElabM` is stored in values of a new type
`Lean.Elab.CommandContextInfo`.

As a result of this, `Lean.Elab.ContextInfo.save` moves to
`Lean.Elab.CommandContextInfo.save`.

For obtaining the parent declaration for a term, a new typeclass
`MonadParentDecl` is introduced to save the parent declaration in
`Lean.Elab.withSaveParentDeclInfoContext`. `Lean.Elab.Term.withDeclName
x` now calls `withSaveParentDeclInfoContext x` to save the declaration
name.

### Migration

**The changes to the `InfoTree.context` constructor break backwards
compatibility with all downstream users that traverse the `InfoTree`
manually instead of going through the functions in `InfoUtils.lean`.**
To fix this, you can merge the outer `ContextInfo` in a traversal with
the `PartialContextInfo` of an `InfoTree.context` node using
`PartialContextInfo.mergeIntoOuter?`. See e.g.
`Lean.Elab.InfoTree.foldInfo` for an example:
```lean
partial def InfoTree.foldInfo (f : ContextInfo → Info → α → α) (init : α) : InfoTree → α :=
  go none init
where go ctx? a
  | context ctx t => go (ctx.mergeIntoOuter? ctx?) a t
  | node i ts =>
    let a := match ctx? with
      | none => a
      | some ctx => f ctx i a
    ts.foldl (init := a) (go <| i.updateContext? ctx?)
  | _ => a
```

Downstream users that manually save `InfoTree`s may need to adjust calls
to `ContextInfo.save` to use `CommandContextInfo.save` instead and
potentially wrap their `CommandContextInfo` in a
`PartialContextInfo.commandCtx` constructor when storing it in an
`InfoTree` or `ContextInfo.mk` when creating a full context.

### Motivation

As of now, `ContextInfo`s are always *full* contexts, constructed as if
they were always created in `liftTermElabM` after running the
`TermElabM` action. This is not strictly true; we already create
`ContextInfo`s in several places other than `liftTermElabM` and work
around the limitation that `ContextInfo`s are always full contexts in
certain places (e.g. `Info.updateContext?` is a crux that we need
because we can't always create partial contexts at the term-level), but
it has mostly worked out so far. Note that one must be very careful when
saving a `ContextInfo` in places other than `liftTermElabM` because the
context may not be as complete as we would like (e.g. it may lack
meta-variable assignments, potentially leading to a language server
panic).

Unfortunately, the parent declaration of a term is another example of a
context that cannot be provided in `liftTermElabM`: The parent
declaration is usually set via `withDeclName`, which itself lives in
`TermElabM`. So by the time we are trying to save the full
`ContextInfo`, the declaration name is already gone. There is no easy
fix for this like in the other cases where we would really just like to
augment the context with an extra field.

The refactor that we decided on to resolve the issue is to refactor the
`InfoTree` to take a `PartialContextInfo` instead of a `ContextInfo` and
have code that traverses the `InfoTree` merge inner contexts with outer
contexts to produce a full `ContextInfo` value.

### Bumps for downstream projects

- `lean-pr-testing-3159` branch at Std, not yet opened as a PR
- `lean-pr-testing-3159` branch at Mathlib, not yet opened as a PR
- leanprover/LeanInk#57
- hargoniX/LeanInk#1
- tydeu/lean4-alloy#7
- leanprover-community/repl#29

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Co-authored-by: Sebastian Ullrich <sebasti@nullri.ch>

In v4.6.0, there was a significant regression in initial server startup
performance because the .ilean files got bigger in #3082 and we load the
information stored in all .ilean files synchronously when the server
starts up.

This PR makes this loading asynchronous. The trade-off is that requests
that are issued right after the initial server start when the references
are not fully loaded yet may yield incomplete results.

Benchmark for this in a separate PR soon after this one.

---------

Co-authored-by: Sebastian Ullrich <sebasti@nullri.ch>

In v4.6.0, there was a significant regression in initial server startup
performance because the .ilean files got bigger in #3082 and we load the
information stored in all .ilean files synchronously when the server
starts up.

This PR makes this loading asynchronous. The trade-off is that requests
that are issued right after the initial server start when the references
are not fully loaded yet may yield incomplete results.

Benchmark for this in a separate PR soon after this one.

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Co-authored-by: Sebastian Ullrich <sebasti@nullri.ch>