I’m always at a loss as what to say when someone comes at me with catty remarks . First of all I become bewildered 😧, as to why this is happening? I’m not a rude person, so I never expect rudeness.

The correct response comes to mind when the moment is over. Many a times I wish I had a ready reply. It’s the timing to reply in kind to the verbal offense, showing that you are not secretly burning to blow the face of the offender to smithereens.

I simply wish I could make a verbal reply at the right time, that would be great.