Tag Archives: observer

Be An Observer

Posted on July 31, 2018 by janieleeds

If you’re thinking that my advice to be an observer in your life story with the narcissists is hooey, I understand.  It wasn’t until I understood what it meant that I realized what a great tool it is to healing. … Continue reading →

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Why I Forgave Him

Posted on July 30, 2017 by janieleeds

I was watching The Vow which was a movie on tv the other night.  As the daughter yells at her mom for staying with her father after he cheated, the mom simply said, I chose to stay with him for … Continue reading →

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Starting Over and Creating Something Better

Posted on May 24, 2017 by janieleeds

It’s not always about trying to fix something that’s broken. It’s about starting over and creating something better. Sometimes in life, things are just broken and you can’t fix them.  For me, I can’t fix my marriage which fell apart.  … Continue reading →

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Journaling Power

Posted on April 15, 2017 by janieleeds

Journaling saved me.  There, I said it.  I don’t know if you are a person who likes to write in a journal, but I have found it to be very beneficial.  I don’t necessarily ‘JOURNAL’ as in writing every day, … Continue reading →

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