Tag Archives: peace

It’s Just a Bed…Right?

Posted on February 5, 2026 by janieleeds

I sold the bedroom furniture from the marriage. I know, I know. It took me long enough – partly because I didn’t have any other bed to sleep in and in part because, well, I picked it out and had … Continue reading →

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Authentically Over 50

Posted on January 1, 2026 by janieleeds

I have big plans for the coming year. Plans for myself that include moving, getting rid of the old furniture and getting some new furniture that I pick out! Clean slate. New vibes. Now let’s see if I can keep … Continue reading →

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Never Surrender

Posted on December 10, 2025 by janieleeds

Do you remember the song by Corey Hart circa 1985 called Never Surrender? It came to me this morning so I just finished listening to it again for the first time in many years and the familiarity that came along … Continue reading →

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My “Magical” Thinking

Posted on December 9, 2025 by janieleeds

The older kid told me something the other day and it’s stuck with me. We were talking about some ‘family’ members who he thought were lying to me. And the conversation proceeded as such: Kid: You know what your problem … Continue reading →

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My New Philosophy

Posted on December 7, 2025 by janieleeds

Fall in love with your life. Wake up early, buy your favorite coffee, go for walks, eat good food, wear what makes you confident, listen to your favorite music. Purposefully create those small moments that make you fall in love … Continue reading →

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The Switch That Turned On Inside of Me

Posted on November 26, 2025 by janieleeds

I love Christmas! Twinkly white lights (which by the way I have on all year round in various spots in my home) just make me giddy – add a little sparkle to green, red and the fresh smell of balsam … Continue reading →

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Save Yourself

Posted on October 9, 2025 by janieleeds

I saw this today and thought it was meant to be shared. You know how the Universe sometimes sends you a sign and you just know it’s for you because it’s comes exactly at the right moment? Here it is: … Continue reading →

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New Year New You

Posted on January 2, 2024 by janieleeds

So I’m slowly implementing the new rules much to the aggravation of the kids. I’m standing centered and strong even though it feels yucky to have them mad much of the time. It’s like dealing with grown-a** two year olds … Continue reading →

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Christmas Letdown

Posted on December 26, 2023 by janieleeds

I hope you had a good Christmas (if that’s your holiday)! It’s my holiday too, but mine was a bit stinky this year. In fact, this morning I was grateful to wake up to having Christmas overwith since it was … Continue reading →

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