Tag Archives: hindsight

Stop Suffering

Posted on August 12, 2018 by janieleeds

The root of suffering is attachment. – The Buddha I saw this quote today and felt like kicking myself.  Not literally kicking myself mind you, but figuratively because I’m tired of suffering.  I was attached, attached to the past for … Continue reading →

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When You Realize He’s A Narcissist

Posted on July 25, 2018 by janieleeds

If you’ve just realized that there’s a narcissist in your life, you might feel nauseous like I did.  Your mind may be going in all directions and those pesky a-ha’s are probably stabbing you with horrifying accuracy because you’re remembering … Continue reading →

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I Don’t Want To Do This Anymore

Posted on September 2, 2017 by janieleeds

When my EX-husband told me it was over, his words were, I don’t want to do this anymore.  Fragile me, took that as I wasn’t enough for him.  I relived that quote over and over as failure.  I wasn’t enough.  … Continue reading →

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