Tag Archives: conditional love

You Held Me Down…And I Let It Happen

Posted on March 28, 2020 by janieleeds

I had this epiphany recently that I allowed so many people in my life hold me down because they wanted me to be a certain way.  It started in childhood.  I was to be perfect all the time.  Perfect in … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce, finding happiness at 50 | Tagged , , , , , | 10 Comments

Your First Fight Will Be Your Last

Posted on February 23, 2020 by janieleeds

I had an interesting conversation with a friend who’s divorced the other day.  She’d read an article that discussed how when you remember back to the first fight you had with your partner (and you were now broken up/separated/divorced) you … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce, finding happiness at 50 | Tagged , , , , , | 10 Comments