Tag Archives: cheating husband

When The Narcissist Says Don’t Cheat

Posted on December 17, 2022 by janieleeds

The ex began to tell me, “If you’re going to cheat, leave before you cheat, as it’s disrespectful.” In my mind this came out of nowhere as I would never cheat. I couldn’t understand his sudden obsession with saying this … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce | Tagged , , , , | 8 Comments

When All Signs Point To Cheating

Posted on December 15, 2022 by janieleeds

I have no doubt the ex cheated on me. There I said it. Or wrote it. There it is – in black and white. And I feel non-plussed by it. There’s no emotion behind it. Except that he’s a lying … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce | Tagged , , , , , , , | 21 Comments

Part Deux As Promised

Posted on October 13, 2022 by janieleeds

My kid walked away for a few minutes and I settled down after I got my heart and mouth under control after our last conversation. Allowed…that word just did it for me as it did for many of you who … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce | Tagged , , , , , , | 18 Comments

An Untold Story of Isolation

Posted on May 8, 2020 by janieleeds

** Based on a true story, but a friend’s experience and not mine. Before the lock-down he’d been acting funny.  And he was on his phone a lot with Linda.  But I knew Linda and I wasn’t that worried because … Continue reading →

Posted in Untold Stories of Isolation | Tagged , , , , , , | 17 Comments