Between two book tags, a movie review, and a year-end wrap-up post, it feels like it’s been a little while since we reviewed any books here on the blog. Let’s change that!
I mentioned in my review of The Grownup last October, that I knew Gone Girl by reputation, but had yet to read the book or watch the movie. I’m not sure if the book was on my radar at the time of its release (2012), but when the movie finally came out (2014), it seemed to be all anyone was talking about.
And now in 2026(!) I still feel like it gets referenced quite a bit among my friends and the book people I follow online. I think my friends were mostly just surprised I never went for it as I A) read a lot, and B) am generally keeping an eye out for trends.
I would have just graduated college back in June of 2012 when this book came out, and wouldn’t start this blog for another 3-4 months, and even then I’d only post on it like once a month. 2014 when the movie arrived was little better with just a smattering of posts in January, April, June, and July of that year. Most (if not all) of my posts from that time seem to revolve around small publications and Independent authors (with the exception of Ryan Holiday’s Trust Me, I’m Lying which was a huge book for me).
My goodreads account shows only 4 books read in 2012, and another 4 in 2014.
Looking back at this actually kind of fascinating. As I mention in my Jackalope Wives review, I was working seemingly quite hard to “get into books” as a profession, and yet my posting about books seems pretty scarce. That review mentions that I was writing for Amazing Stories and working on freelance editing gigs during 2014 as well.
It seems I may have been so focused on the small literary world I could see and interact with right in front of me, that I didn’t really notice or have time for the massive phenomenon that was Gone Girl. I missed the forest for the trees so to speak . . . which probably explains a lot about why I never “made it” in publishing (hahah).
Another reason I often hear for why people are surprised I hadn’t read this one yet is that the story is — to my mind — a bit “meta” in a way which someone with my English-y background might enjoy.
And my friends were right! I absolutely did enjoy the kind of meta-commentary I was picking up. I really noticed it with Amy’s diary posts, Nick’s positioning as an out-of-work journalist, Amy’s positioning as the daughter of two publishing giants, and the literal subject of a children’s series. Amy’s explanation of being a “Cool Girl” and the sort of hipster way they talk about other couples. Amy in particular has a sort of faux clarity; a misunderstanding that if she is able to point out a cliche, she is therefore above it (which we find out to be wholly untrue).
And later as things really begin to heat up, and lawyers and the press get involved, the whole story really becomes about controlling the narrative, which is just great considering all the twists and turns this story puts the reader through. Even if we are able to sus out (correctly) where something is going ahead of time, it’s usually so audacious that we dismiss it right away. At no point is the reader ever in control of Gone Girl‘s narrative. Flynn is in control the WHOLE TIME!!
I don’t think I’ve ever been so divided about two characters in a book. Neither Nick, nor Amy, are good people. Yet at different points of the story, you find yourself rooting for each of them to ‘win’ even though they don’t have any moral ground to stand on. Aside from the twists (yes multiple), I think this character work is what really shows Flynn’s skill as an author. That we are made to care for each of these two characters no matter what new (and often awful) piece of information is revealed is simply incredible.
I think my only critique is that sometimes Nick seems a little too oblivious early on to be able to pull off some of the stunts he is able to later in the book. I think his backstory as a journalist/reporter and his understanding of how the press works definitely give him the skillset to accomplish things the way he does, but it does kind of leave the reader wondering where the heck were these skills earlier the story?
Give ‘Gone Girl‘ a Read?
Absolutely. I think this one is a rare case in which all the hype which has surrounded it for so long is legitimately earned. It’s a great story with expertly written characters which you never really come to like, but ultimately root for all the same. Equally compelling is the way in which the reader never quite ‘figures’ this one out. Even if you do guess important twists, you dismiss them so quickly that when they reappear you’re still shocked that the author ‘actually did that’.

