I can’t tell you how many times I almost didn’t publish this book even after I signed the contracts. And I’m so happy I did. Today is launch day - my first memoir, told in prose poetry. Buy it at your favourite indie or from @bookhugpress !
A thing I wish I knew about Thoreau as a teenager was that his mother brought him sandwiches and Walden Pond was on her property. I think I might have made some different life choices had I understood that.
I wish authors could get three close friends to blurb their books. “She was very depressed when she wrote this but she did it! We’re very proud. She has no other skills so we worry. Please buy this so she’ll stop talking about it.”
When I got pregnant in February my biggest fear was miscarrying by myself during the pandemic. And that exact thing happened. My best friend did come over, now we’re a pod of sorts, being alone for the worst of it would have been impossible. I thought I knew what a miscarriage ..
I'm still mad about it. I didn't get chased by guys yelling dyke, or have to physically step between an asshole and my butch partners more times than I can count while they yell "fucking dykes" at us, and then be told by a 20 something not to use the word dyke in my book.
Anyway I’m only writing about it here bc I feel like there should be more discussion about it? Also bc people have been so nice and offering baby things and I just want to be open about not needing that anymore.