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Wes, the Dadliest Catch
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Wes, the Dadliest Catch
@wfenza
Loving husband & doting father. Host of @mindkillerpod. Relationship libertarian. Go birds. Date me! tinyurl.com/call-me-maybe
- Replying to @bashu_thanksOh yeah. It's an arbitration clause. Everyone has them, but courts keep invalidating them because they bury them in the terms of service, so now some places are announcing them loudly
- Dating issue: how do you balance not looking desperate with showing your enthusiasm for a person? People say to keep an abundance mindset, but people aren't interchangeable and every individual is a unique good
- I got a huge crush on a girl so I desperately pursued her for 9 months despite her having a boyfriend. They ended up breaking up and we've been together for 20 years
- Exhibit A in why I hate school. This is from Roxie's preschool. They don't let the kids inside until 9am, so if they show up early, kids will often play on the playground right next to the entrance. This is now banned. The reason is "the morning transition time is very important
- "Why aren't young people having sex?" Idk, maybe it's because we've declared being horny a crime?BREAKING: ๐จ Liberal influencer Harry Sisson busted in massive SNAPCHAT scandal, reportedly convinced 11 different women to send explicit photos of themselves including one that was a domestic abuse survivor. โช๏ธ The victims are now speaking out.
- Replying to @wfenzaIt seems insulting if your attitude is "it's fine if this doesn't work out; I won't have any problem meeting people just as good as you." And often not true! When I meet someone I like, it's a special a precious thing. I wouldn't want to treat it like no big deal
- Every TERF take is like "I hate trans women because I hate men, and trans women are kinda men." And every response is like "look we all hate men but trans women don't count"
- oh no. Trace has fallen victim to the trap of every indie journalist who goes mainstream - he's starting his article with a human interest anecdote and not getting to the actual story until, in this case, paragraph 19. Sad to see it happen to one of our bestNew article from me. I'm very proud of this oneโit took dozens of interviews and extensive trawling of the historical record. It should provide everything people need to know about the FAA's hiring scandal and the people who fought to bring it to light. tracingwoodgrains.com/p/the-full-stoโฆ
- Replying to @Romy_HollandI'm convinced that >50% of therapists make their living by saying "wow, I'm so proud of you" 10x per session
- When people say "tpot is right wing" they mean that tpot is overwhelmingly left-wing but tolerates right wingers, so there are a handful of them in the scenevaguely leftie tpot over here, just usually avoid politics posting i'd be like a teacher or something without government-funded university, instead i get to be an artist-entrepreneur abortion is fine immigration is good social conservatism can suck it k back to โจno politicsโจ
- To expand on this a bit, when you're in a long-term relationship, both parties go through a lot of change. Nobody is the same person they were ten years ago. Sometimes (often?) people grow apart. They go in different directions and end up no longer right for each other, even ifReplying to @Aella_GirlMaybe at the beginning of a relationship, but I don't think most people operate that way after 10 years
- Me: I wonder why The Kids aren't having sex anymore The Kids:
